My husbands family things they are better than use. They will say hurtful things. How do we deal with this?

Question

Sometimes hurtful things will be said to us and we don't know why we are the black sheep of the family. I recently had a situations. My sister and mother in law were at my house and I made a comment about my sons being a sore sport often reminds my husband of his brother when they were kids and now my sister in laws has asked me to not say my kids get their anger from her husband that he has nothing to do with it. First of all I didn't say my kids have tempers and I don' t like the fact she keeps making that statement. The fact of the matter is her husband does have a temper and has been to many anger management classes. But all that aside my comment was blown out of what was really said. I have been very upset about all of this and I don't know how to deal with my emotions.

Answer 1

don't talk to them..