My husbands son sends him pics of nude chics he wants to have one night stands with..why?

Question

My Husband is 56 and my stepson (his son) is 32 years old. My husbands son has sent him a nude pic of a lady he wants to have a one night stand with on holidays. I dont understand why my husband allows his son to do this..? I find it disrepectful. My hubby has his laptop turned away from me... but I am sitting right beside him. I just happen to come over to him when it happen.

my hubbys son is always telling him when he has s*x with a new woman. Even his past girlfriend, he told him that he did it 5 times. My step son is 32 years old and I feel its wrong for him to talk this way. My husband said he isnt interested but will laugh at his sons comments and look at these pics...

Any advice? Because I dont want to overreact. But I feel neglected in that way overall and my hubby doesnt talk to his son about us or anything... but it appears that my hubby is more interested in his sons personal love life than ours. I am more his sons age as well, so there is a age gap between hubby and I. I really need advice.. I dont know whether this is ok and i should forget about it... or is this creepy that my hubby and his son look at the same nude pic of someone his son wants to do things with.

My hubby says that he isnt going to have ANYONE dictate what he talks to his son about vica versa... and that if his son wants to talk about it then he can.. I feel disrepected.. his son doesnt like me anyway... but i think its disrepectful.. and that my husband isnt putting his foot down. His son lives with his best mate as roommates... its like talk to him..

Please help... thanks:)

Answer 1

YOU are his wife now and his son is WAY too involved in that. When anyone is sending him nude pics, ANYONE, its your business & you ought to be offended! I would be! Tell him you dont approve and its disrespectful. If his son was asking if he should sleep with her, WITHOUT sending pics, then i dont really see your place since hes talking with his dad and hes mid 30's. BUT thats not the case. PICS is way over the line, and he is involving you. Very disrespectful. And the woman posting above me, must be a ex wife of SOMEONE and have something against 2nd wives... d**n.

Answer 2

change yorself as a social worker

Answer 3

Your  step and  his  Dad  both  seem  have problems.  Your  husband  has  allowed the  son and  him to be  buddies  and  not a real relation of  guidance.  You  might  remind  your  husband  if  the  son  gets a  serious fatal disease it  will be  he  standing  at  the  bedside  so it  is his  problem  also.  I  do  feel at  such  a  adult  age the  damage of  roles  has  been  in printed and  wont  change. It  is  disrespectful  to  you but  the  son  and  father  don't  see and  don't  care  it  is.  You  have  a  problem  for sure.  I  have  a 26yr  son  with  personality  disorder and  we  have  to  put  him  in  line  some  times.  However  my  husband  who is  the  step  knows  when  he  has  crossed  line.

Answer 4

quit criticizing someone else's children. it is between him and his son. u want to criticize someone - criticize your own mother or get your own children if your hubby can get it up ever

Answer 5

like son like father