My husbnad is the best man in an out of state wedding. As the wife am I automatically invited?

Question

or do I need a specific invite to go?

Answer 1

it would be expected you be invited but you never know!  Just RSVP for 2

Answer 2

You should be included in the wedding and Rehearsal dinner too. They should send an official invite that is addressed to you both.

When Is the wedding? Is it possible the invites haven't arrived yet

Answer 3

Your husband should still receive an invitation to the wedding even though he's in it.  If the bride and groom have ANY sense they'll know to invite you.  If they are senseless and classless and don't invite you, I hope your husband drops out of the wedding.  Husbands and wives are a packaged deal and should always BOTH be invited to an event like a wedding.

Answer 4

You are not automatically invited unless you receive an invitation.  If you aren't sure, contact the bride or groom's mother and ask if you are on the invitee list.   It's a little unusual not to invite the wife, but given that it's out of state, perhaps the couple made a mistake or didn't want you guys out more money if you don't really know them.

Answer 5

of course you are, and if you aren't then your husband should gracefully bow out as best man.. If he is close enough to a person that they asked him to be best man, they should be respecting the fact that he is married and you two are a family. If your name is not on the invite, then he should call and be sure, but if they say "no" your husband needs to be on your side and voice his comncern over the lack of respect they had for you, him and his marriage!

Answer 6

Even though your husband is the best man, he should still receive an invitation addressed to Mr & Mrs _______.  Unless, the couple is the most uncouth couple ever, yes, you are automatically invited,

Answer 7

You BETTER be invited! Husband and wife are a packaged deal! :)