Okay, see the old questions for the long, sordid background. My in-laws live with us now after my father-in-law lost his job. They won't go out and look for realistic employment. They're broke and we're stuck with their bills.
After some good advice (on Y!A), my wife and I agreed to set a drop-dead date for them to get jobs or find some other relatives to help out. My new problem, however, is that she's started backsliding! She won't set that date and tell them what needs to be said, and she won't let me do it either.
This has (obviously) started to affect everything... my work, our marriage, long-term plans, etc. I'm at the end of my rope here. What do I do? I tried to talk to my wife about how this is affecting our marriage, and she said that if she had to choose, she'd choose her parents.
Okay, that hurt a little of course, particularly given that we both agree that her parents just aren't trying to find work. So how should I interpret this? ...unwilling to get them out and the statement that she's willing to sacrifice our marriage for people who are basically just prideful and lazy. This is a bad sign, isn't it?
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