My in laws hate me........

Question

My fiance and I broke up, then have reconciled. However, I have found out that her family never did like me. How do I change this? She can't be with someone that gets along with her parents. I have fixed my issues and she's seen it. Now for the next step..the rest of the family.

Answer 1

Be true to yourself

Answer 2

You cannot seriously expect in-laws to like you, that's why there are so many jokes about in-laws!

Further your relationship is with your fiance, not your in-laws.

Love & cherish her, take good care of her and build up a strong relationship which is enduring with her.

One day, if you are lucky, they might grudgingly admit they were wrong about you.

Best wishes. UK

Answer 3

Be honest with them, let them see the changes in you, and give them time.  Trust isn't earned overnight.  They need to see the evidence

of your change.