My kids are asking questions about s*x and masturbation!?

Question

First they ARE old enough to be asking about this but I dont know how to answer its not because Im uncomfortable its because IDK what it is! I know it means "playing" with your self but thats all!!! I dont know what to say during the s*x talk either! They are girls

Answer 1

don't know about s*x but have kids

Answer 2

Tell them its disgusting and they will go blind and their hands will fall off !!!

Joking.

Tell them its for people to do privately and its normal, there is no right or wrong way but please don't make it sound a bad thing or they will have hang ups about s*x for the rest of their lives.

I know it's not easy to answer them... I am a dad of four

Answer 3

I would recommend getting a book and reading through it together.  

Answer 4

if you are open to having talks with your kids, why not go and get a couple books that will help the talk along

look online, or go into a book store, there are all kinds of books for these topics

good luck

Answer 5

let the schools deal with it and try to convince your kids to wait until marriage before haveing s*x so they won't have to worry about unwanted pregnacy or STDs  

Answer 6

Im 14yrs old and when i was 13 i asked my mom what does masturbation mean and she told me to shut up and don't ask that question lol but i guess you should tell them you don't know what it means but if they're over the age of 12 they should've been known what s*x means because people hear about stuff in school  

Answer 7

you have kids

yet you know nothing about s*x or masturbation?

how does that work.

Answer 8

http://midwestteensexshow.com/

:P

Answer 9

be a parent, just be yourself.. all will become well...you do it the right way.And yes they are old enough...but the main thing is..just be yourself...teach your children well....just as you feel is best!!

You will have great girls if you do!

Answer 10

Just tell them like it is, the best way you know how.  Better they find out from you than from someone else.

Answer 11

Read up and find out more about it.  I was the same way, the internet helped me with the technical stuff..haha