My kids father will not leave me alone, what can i do to get rid of him?

Question

We were together for 5 years, i lost intrest in him because he has no ambition or drive in life, plus he got all fat and sloppy. We are total opposites and it's completely over, but he keeps coming arround using my son as an excuse, sending me crazy text messages and giving me cards and flowers. i have told him several times that its over, done and never going to happen, but he is not listening, what can i do?

Answer 1

This is a hard situation because he should see your son, though he shouldn't use spending time with his son as an excuse to harass you. Simply start refusing his gifts. Tell him once and for all that it's truly over, and you mean it. Don't ever give him mixed signals.

If it's still a problem, make a trusted family member a neutral person, someone who can be a go-between when he is spending time with his son. For example, when he comes over to pick up your son, have your mom or sister be there, and you can disappear for a while. When he drops off, same thing. He's almost stalking you, and I wouldn't put up with that.

Answer 2

Get your new boyfriend to be a man and have him get that fool out of your life!! If you don't have a new boyfriend to handle that then a restraining order might be an option!! GOOD LUCK!!  

Answer 3

usually a new man could do the trick but if you ain't looking for another one try a fake one im sure you got a good guy friend that can help you out.