My life has turned around for the worst! HELP!

Question

Everything was fine a couple of years ago but that all changed.... I recently lost all belongings to a disaster and then got into some trouble with the law. Just when i thought things couldn't get worse my ex told me she was diagnosed with HPV!!! I'm constantly under a lot of stress as as I'm also try to maintain my grades so i can stay in the honors business program I'm currently enrolled in. I'm stressed about my job as I'm constantly busting my *** (60 hours a week landscaping) in order to have money. On top of that i recently met a girl who really likes me but i have so much on my mind right now i don't know what to do! (this all happened within a two month time frame)

Answer 1

Lets see........You may of lost your belongings, but YOUR still here. That's all that matters. Most belongings can be replaced, you can't.

Make sure you don't get in trouble again. This will pass.

I wouldn't worry about the HPV thing. She could of gotten that after the two of you broke up. You can always go get tested and if its positive, then its not life threatening.

And last, your hard work will pay off someday! You'll do fine. Try to be positive. Look ahead, not behind you.

Good luck and let us know how you do!!

Answer 2

i know this might sound like it wont work, but relax and do that yoga meditation.....yes yes i know what ur thinking....but trust me i tried it once when i was stressed and it seemed to work...if u need any other help on meditation just email me....but it doesnt matter how much stress ur under...stress is stress...its all the same, and its horrible!!

they say stress is worse than any other known diesae, (sorry iam bad at spelling)..

i really really hope you figure it out and calm down, and ur stress goes away!! good luckXD

and this sounds kinda odd, coming from a girl lik me , but go to ur happy place, think of things that make u happy..when ur stressed!!

once again good luck XD

Answer 3

I love America because it is a free country and we are all different. I found myself in alot of sticky situations lately and I thought I was going insane. I went to seek out some people to read my cards and tell me what is going on. I went to two very different people and I had exactly the same readings. I was amazed at the details they gave without me saying a word.  i had alot of negativity going on. I will get a spiritual cleansing soon. Ever thought about going to someone who can tell you what is going on?

Just a thought. I know alot of people have different beliefs, and this is one of mines. Just wanted to share.  

Answer 4

Pray to God..pray and pray.. dont QUIT

Answer 5

Did your ex know she had HVP when you 2 had s*x??? If so then you need to turn her in that is illegal knowing you have it and not telling the partner is considered attempted murder. What you need to do with this series of problems is break them down and deal with them one at a time... 1st go get yourself checked for HPV and HIV keep getting checked every 6 months. OK problem number 1 taken care of because if you do develop anything it will be medically treated just as it starts. Now Problem number 2 your schooling... don't freak out so much on it, you can also if you need to drop some of the classes that are not absolutely needed, and just take your time and study that is all anyone can do. As far as belongings go for right now until you finish school go to thrift stores and you can pickup some furniture pretty cheap to use until you can afford to buy some thing better, also they sell clothes as well. Also check around at garage sales in the summer time. You have to not let everything overwhelm you because if you do you will not ever get things under control. If you break the huge problem into smaller portions it isn't so hard to figure how what to do about each part! I sure hope I helped you a little bit anyways, best of luck to you hon. Gentle Hugs

Answer 6

In December (of last year) I ended up in the ER with a gash in my head. I had no medical insurance, at all.   Two days before Christmas I received a $25,000 bill ( i am only 21 yrs. old so I dont exactly have that sort of pocket change)The night i cracked my head open my purse was lost ( i lost my check that i had just cashed, my ipod, my phone, my eyeglasses)  two weeks after that i totalled my car by crashing into someones huge horse fence ( i let my insurance expire by a month and one day prior to this crash so I lost all hope of getting a new car or any sort of money out of this incident) i found out my boyfriend who I really needed during this time was heavily involoved in drugs/drug dealing, and I had no idea this was happening even after i had been with him for over a year.  last year i went away to college and was subsequently diagnosed w/ anxiety and it was too much and i dropped out...my parents will no longer pay for my schooling so I dont know what to do about that either....i have also been diagnosed with hpv ( a few years ago).  I lost all my friends last year because they choose to spend all of their time w/ their boyfriends.  I feel lost, alone, hurt, confused, and angry all the time.  So my answer to you is: take one day at a time, because thats all you can do. When you start living for today and stop worrying so much about tomorrow, you will realize that you can handle the day ahead of you, and when you wake up the day after that, you know you can handle that one as well. Sorry for my life story, I just know that at one point not too long ago I lost all hope and realized that it was because I was too worried about the future and not so much about the present day. good luck to you, and remember...everything so far has worked itself out, right? little by little the things that are hurting you will go away.

Answer 7

i know life hits you all at once and its hard but RELAX YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS, be there for your ex but i am sure shes fine, dont get in trouble with the law again, your grades try to spend more time at home and relaxing and doing your studies to have money with the work try doing  less hours since all this happened. with your new girl take her out to a park and have fun with her !!! thats so cute that you have someone who likes you too :]

i hope i helped you so can you please help me http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...

Answer 8

Sounds like you need to take some time for yourself and destress. Do you have a friend that you can spend sometime with that isn't going to judge you or put you down? What about your parents or other family members? About the girl you just met, take it slow and let her know that you are interested but that you have so much going on right now and that you want to get to know her but that you need to go slow. Keep it real with her and yourself. If you have too much going on and something has to give, what would you be able to give up for now that you may be able to pick up again later?