My life is going to h**l ...........?

Question

I loved married girl six years ago and we love each other more than anything else in the world, all that period we hope and plan to get married after she get divorced from here husband.

But my lover got pregnant from me and because we live in very strict community “Arabic community” which means if her family or her husband know about our secret may the will kill here and me immediately.

She hates her husband so much and she married him because of her family who forced here to marry him.

Now my baby started to be bigger and more conscious for the people around her and I couldn’t say how much I love the mother and daughter and I will do anything to keep them with me, but her mother now is afraid from her to talk about me if she keeps seeing me, therefore she decided to break up with me and leave me alone.

Since she decided that decision my life has totally changed, and I feel that I can’t complete my life without them, my daughter is very beautiful and lovely with me.

Now my situation is very bad, I can’t sleep, I can’t eat normally, and I can’t do my business and duties correctly.

I feel my life is going to end, I can’t breath, I spend my nights crying alone, I can’t think , or talk, I even started to be afraid from any child could remind me with my child.

Please somebody tell me how I can forget them??? Or what I should do to keep them with me again or at least back to normal life …………………pls help.

Answer 1

y would u sleep with a married woman anyway? and then get her pregnant. if she love u like u say she do then.u & her need 2 leave that place & relocate. cause thats wrong if u got da bad end. she still knw u have feelins. if u want them save money & get her away from there

Answer 2

what an awful situation, just move away!

Answer 3

I can't imagine not getting to see my daughter again, she is only 8 months old, but still a parents love for their child is very powerful!!! I know i am probably not the right person to answer this question for you, but if i was in your situation, i would get your daughter & her mother & flee to another country or something. I honestly don't know what else for you to do, because it would be impossible for me to forget them. Maybe she will divorce her husband & be with you, just as long as no one finds out that the baby girl is yours, maybe you will be ok!!! I wish you the best of luck, & will pray for you to find your answers & a way to be happy again!!!!

Answer 4

i feel so much for you. i really hope that you can convince the mother of your child to flee her sad, unhappy marriage and run away with you somewhere. you only live once and to live in such sadness the both of you, is just a waste of life. i know that i couldn't bear being parted from my son, so i really hope that things work out for you.

if you can't convince the mother of your child to run away with you, i think you need to get counselling to help you cope with your sad situation. good luck.

Answer 5

you can't but you need help - go see someone

Answer 6

There is no way you can forget them even if you wanted to! If there isn't any way to get your love and child back, you have to move on.