My life is in a mess.i am a divorcee and my marriage ended in 15 days as i was in love with another guy.?

Question

we couldn't marry becoz of family opposition,he supported me in every aspect of my life before and after my divorce as we both love one another a lot.now becoz of his family he got married two days ago....i cant bear this pain.i cant share him with anyone.his parents r against me and he cant help in this.as he is too dependent on them.i feel as if i am used i feel so bad.we have shared everything even had physical relationship with him for past 5 years but now he left me for someone of his parents choice,what should i do now,i have no one to help i feel like killing myself.my life,my family,my parents i left eveything for him and he knows also but why???plz help me????

Answer 1

Let me get that straight.  You married someone else and divorced after 15 days, all the while having this "true" love on the sidelines, coaching you all the way?  Meanwhile, he's now getting married to another too?

WTF?  That is messed up.  Make a big sign...show up at the church wedding ceremony. Use the fifth amendment.

Then....just move on.  Your family will accept you back.  Life will have many more trials and tribulations for you.  Learn to handle them with dignity.  

Answer 2

What is there to do...obviously he stilll suckles from the teet.  Let him go.  Buy a dictionary.  Find a real man.  

Answer 3

They say that IT is easier said than done...but life is meant for moving on...whatever happened has happened,just try to forgrt him coz it is the only option left for you and this is beneficial for both of you..and please dnt behave like a coward,,killing yourself is not the answer..be brave and face it okay?And try to win your parents' belief in you i know it will take some time but after all they are your parents,they will understand you,,,now that man is married so dont keep any contact with him,this may spoil his married life also.....may be you can get a man better than him.Try to divert your mind at some other thing..join some course or hobby class or try for some job..this may help and plz stop crying for things that have gone and look forward for what is coming...May GOD bless you dear...  

Answer 4

You need to grow up before you start playing house. I am not trying to be mean but you sound so immature. Go to school and get an education, try English for a start. Once you are educated and have grown up a bit then look for a mature man.

Answer 5

I'm certain you weren't married to an English major.   How do I know?  Just becoz.

Answer 6

Honey I am kind of in the same catagory but I was married my husband left me while I was five months pregnant living with him he asked me to pack my clothes and leave" mind you," I'm pregnant and now was at the time homeless and no where to go no family in this town .I decided to sign up for a home my baby is now 5 mths. and now i'm attending school to become a teacher and the men are all over me .My point is be somebody don't give up because one man failed you theres more fish in the sea me and my husband dated for about 6 yrs before we got married and it didn't even last 6 mths.so be encouraged and please by all means ,honey don't kill yourself , just become better ,because if that man really loved you he wouldn't had cared abut his family trust me eventually he'll want you and you'll be in a better relationship with someone else girly girl let it go ,HEY, at lease you weren't married!!!!!

Answer 7

Run as fast as you can away from this situation

Answer 8

If he is that dependant on his parents you don't want him. Trust find a real man that doesn't need Mommy and Daddy for everything.

Answer 9

Why would you want to be Married to someone that has to still have their mommy & daddy tell them what to do. He should of Married who he was in love with not someone of his parents choice. He still has alot of growing up to do.

Answer 10

First,remember that family is stronger than life itself. He doesnt have the strength to stand up against his family so instead of butting heads against them, he just decided that going with the flow was easier than going against it. Its not that he didnt love you, he probably just felt that this was better than subjecting you to his families hared of you. I know this doesnt make the pain any better but now as so many before you have and will always do, pick up the pieces and move on. With every passing day the pain will get a little better, but you cant show this guy what he has done to you. Your life will get better each day and soon youll meet someone else who will trat you for the Princess you really are. Good luck