About a year ago I had it all - a great job, my own place, I wasn't fat, cute wardrobe, I had a cute car and plans to do something really fun and cool in a different country. So, I lost my job due to the recession before I left for my assignment abroad so I had to waitress for the short term before I left. That was fine. But my assignment abroad ended up being a disaster and it made me sad that my dream had died and I had to come home. So upon coming home I found another job in my town but ended up turning it down to move in with my boyfriend in another city. Now I can't find a job in my new city and I feel very undesireable by employers because it looks like I am a complete flake - the first job that I was laid off from, then the waitressing, then the assignment abroad, now I've been unemployed for so long. I'm really not a flake and until a year ago I always had steady jobs with increasing responsibilities. So, no house other than my boyfriend's place, my stuff is all in storage which is costing me out the butt, I gave most of my clothes away before I left the country and the remaining clothes don't fit because I've gained weight, my dream is dead and I feel ho-hum about my career path now (I used to love this line of work), I've gained 15 pounds, I am broke, my family relationships have taken a dive, and I have no friends in my new community. The only thing I have going for me at the moment is my boyfriend but I feel bad like I am a drain on him and my situation is making me depressed and probably not so fun to be around. Any thoughts? I just need a pep talk. How do I turn my life around to where I was a year ago? Thank you!
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