My life is so boring without a girlfriend. what should i do to get a girlfriend?

Question

i am not good looking. thats what i think.

Answer 1

Dress cool, get a cool hair cut, get in shape.  If you do those three things, looks don't matter unless you are hideously deformed.  Say, "hi" to 20 strangers a day and start at least 5 conversations (they don't have to be with hot girls, or even girls, the point is just to get you over your shyness).  Keep this up for a month or two and you'll soon have the confidence to walk up to someone and start a convo.  Next step is to ask for her phone number if you hit it off.  You will get rejected a lot of times,  Don't worry a bit; it is a numbers game.  If you simply keep this up you can have as many dates and girlfriends as you want.  As a side note: you might assume that only ugly girls are nice, friendly, and willing to talk to stragers - this is not true - a persons looks really are not an accurate indicator of their personality most of the time.

Answer 2

looks can only take you so far.

The real trick to getting a girl is picking the right one. The right one will just click with you. Swallow your pride and ask girls out, chances are you'll get a first date and then see if you too click.

Don't be nervous about asking girls out no matter how ugly you are.  

Answer 3

If you don't like how you look, try to change it.  Get a new hair cut, style your hair differently, or find a way that makes you feel comfortable with yourself.  Also, it helps to have a positive attitude.  A lot of girls, including myself like guys with a sense of humor, so try being witty or do something spontaneous/different that'll get a girl's attention.  Finally, be nice and have some manners; girls like being treated well.  Hope that helps a bit.

Answer 4

Dude I'm good looking and I still don't have a girlfriend, but it's by choice. I think getting a girlfriend doesn't have to do with looks as much as it used to. How do I know you may ask? Lets just say I've seen a lot of hot girls going out with some of the most uglies guys you can find, so looks have nothing to do with it. The secret is "effort." If you put forth the effort into getting a girlfriend(asking one out, befriend with pretty girls, etc.), eventually one will fall for you.

Answer 5

idk ask someone out i can't really judge cuz dere are no pics you didn't really discribe yourself either so...

Answer 6

have a great outgoing personality. you'll get someone trust me

Answer 7

Girls are easy to find. everything  is up to you. My fav idea i like to do is ask 15 girls for there numbers and give them yours. believe me, you will get atleast 2 calls or in my case about 95% of them will call you back. Be cocky and confident.

Answer 8

go get a new stylish haircut, make sure you're clean and neat when you're around people, get some new clothes that are really in style (look at the models in mags for ideas: American Eagle has really good styles), wear cologne (I like Drakkar), be nice and sweet and funny and charming.  Even if you aren't great looking, all of this will help you.  Chraming is a big part of it, that's a pretty good way to attract people. Good Luck.

Answer 9

Buy a frisbe

Answer 10

send me a picture of yourself because chances are that you are good looking [;

Answer 11

STOP looking so desperate !!  

Answer 12

I would suggest you get a life, find a hobby first.  If you're boring without a girlfriend you'll be boring with one, the only thing you will succeed in doing is boring your girlfriend. What kind of things do you like to do? Do you have any interest you could share a girl with? Looks don't matter so much as a good personality. Make sure you're happy with yourself before you find a girlfriend. Girls like a guy with self confidence that why you see the worlds ugliest man with a hot girl. Looks will only get you so far.  

Answer 13

what you need to do is act cool and confident, act comfortable in joking and just havbign a good time. thats what attracts me to guys! lol ive liked so many non attractive guys! and while you wait for more answers please help me! im really desperate for good answers

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Answer 14

well from my point of view as long as the guy doesn't smell and is nice then hes fine

guys don't have to be cute they just have to be sweet honest and nice :)

just throw yourself out there and see what happens

good luck!

Answer 15

so? it's the personality that really counts.

Answer 16

ask someone......oh wait look im a somebody

Answer 17

Just be patient. Take ballroom dancing lessons. There you'll be kept occupied and less bored and you might even meet a new girl while you're at it!  

Answer 18

You seem to be shut off from the rest of the world - Perhaps you have a very 'reserved' personality

Open up and be jovial - and definitly smile more often.

I never had a girl friend until I finished my college - but I had a lot of friends - and I definitely was not bored at all.

Answer 19

No woman can make you happy.I think you should make yourself happy 1st.