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My life revolves around my sister?

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in my house, you can clearly tell my mom like my sister more thnan me but she will deny it. like my sister is on varsity soccer and my mom always has to be doing for my sister she has no time for me and doe everything and anytyhing my sister wants. i play softball in spring but my sister plays lacrosse. so my mom will be at my sisters lacrosse and my grandma will come to ym softball. my father lives in another state . since i dont do fall sport my sister never has to do chores and i have to do them all. my sister has to do nothing and she can go out and "party" or what ever she does everynight. shes 16 im 13.

i try to telll my mom but she says thats not true and denys everything she will start yelling at me cause i get mad at her because of it, i dont know what to do..

she also says my day will come when its about me, but shes been saying that for about 7 years and nothing is happening. my sis is the oldest im the youngest. what should i do because it bothers me that my sister is the queen at everything- the house, school, her soccer

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  1. It can be irritating at times I will admit it, when you are the youngest. You may feel forgotten and neglected but what your mother said is true, there will come a day when it will be about you. That day may not come when you want it...but it will come. Just look at your situation with positivity...all of this hard stuff will make you strong and as you grow (you may not see this till years from now) everyone in your family will come to you for advice and help. Hang in there, the more you can take the better person you will be.


  2. just  tell  here

  3. I think you should stop complaining.  

  4. Take a step back and look at things objectively, when you look back at this in 10 years you will see things differently. For now, just go along with it and realize that life is not always fair, and be glad that your family is there for you.

  5. Older siblings often get the run of the house if they live up to parents' expectations. If she's always busy with sports and activities, and you're aren't as busy then it just makes sense that the leftover chores fall to you. But that means you're a huge asset to the family- without you filling in, nothing would get done. It always sucks being underappreciated but think of it this way- you have a place to live free of rent, free clothes to wear and food to eat- its not so bad. In a few years, when you're older and your sister is off to college or out on her own, you'll probably enjoy more freedom and praise. Just enjoy being thirteen for the time being because it only happens once and you're sister doesn't get to be 13 anymore. Good luck!

  6. idk tell her off

  7. well if you're younger, i would think you would be the spoiled one.

    and even though this is bad, if you want something, compare it to your sister.

    "But she got hers when she was my age..."

    "But you always helped her with her h/w.."

    "You always came to her soccer games..."

    ya know?

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