My life sucks, my mom hates me, i'm disliked at school etc. HELP!!!?

Question

okay, so my life's not as bad as some people's but it's pretty bad. my mom hates me, i'm confused about my sexuality, kids at school hate me, and i have very low self confidence. when i think about this sometimes my chest physically hurts. any advice or opinions?i'm 13 btw but dont think i'm immiture or too young or any of that bullsh*t. i'm in 10th grade so that could be some of it but...

Answer 1

well it's probably because you have a weak mental health.  Try going to a therapist, or do yoga to help you think positively.  There's always a bright side to a bad situation if you really think about it.

Good luck with it

Answer 2

try talking to ur mom and find out why she hates u next find ur sexuality dont worry about what the kids @ school says think about urself and build ur self confidence up the reason ur chest hurts so much physically is bc of stress i would talk to the dr and c if he can give u something 4 depression b4 u hrt urself  

Answer 3

It's going to pass believe it or not the people who hates you don't really like themselves all that much and that too shall pass. BE cool, take it easy and things will be just fine. Create your own crew with a bunch of others that feel hated and slowly built that crew to be one of the best in school. People tend to follow hot trends so if you have any talent in sports, music or acting that can be your doorway into becoming somewhat of a star so practice, practice and soon your so called enemies will line up to be your friends. Make the best of your high school years as you will remember them for the rest of your life and oh yeah, it never hurts to be really smart and doing really good in school either then you can tutor the popular but stupid kids thus making you really cool in their eyes. lol

Good luck and remember you're cool as if others just don't know it yet

Answer 4

Why would a 13 yr old who doesn't use correct grammar be in the 10th grade...

Answer 5

I used to feel like that too. You mom does love you but is dealing with another problem and school will be fine. Just try to always have a happy face on and believe people will start liking you

Answer 6

I can understand your feelings about life.  There are many problems that young people face.  I doubt that your mom truly hates you.  Whatever she did or said to make you feel that way, I'm sure was a mistake and she regrets it.  Kids at school hate you because they're jealous.   If you are mature for a sophmore, than you will be able to overlook their inability to cope.  Stress can cause physical pain, heart problems are the last thing you need at 13.  What do you do to relax?  I have a book that provided a lot of help to me when I was younger (I'm 22)  If you want it, I'll ship it to you.  Just let me know.  [e-mail]

Answer 7

maybe you should ask yourself why so many people dislike you. if everyone hates you it may be time to step back and take a good look at who you are and what you are doing to make things this way.

Answer 8

Just part of being young. Just relax.. don't care what people think about you, concentrate on different things and it will all just work out.  

Answer 9

well being bi-curious is pretty normal. what do you mean your mom hates you? School is just cliques you just gotta find were you fit in, especially highschool can be bad! how are you 13 and in 10th grade?

Answer 10

try counuseling

im not trying to be mean or anything  

Answer 11

You'll outgrow these feelings.

Answer 12

Like gets better the older you become.  It really does.

Focus on your goals and always keep them in mind.

Most likely, the kids at school do not ALL hate you. Maybe some do, but so what.  They're dumb.   The vast majority of kids at school are too wrapped up in their own world to really notice other folks.  Reach to the kids who aren't making a scene and who seem kinda quiet.  They are treasures of friendship.