My little bro is such a pervert!!!?

Question

Ever since my b*****s having been getting noticeably bigger he keeps staring at them like all the time, and it's not just that but he does it really obviously n stuff..

I can kind of understand why (because he's 14) what with the whole puberty thing & hormones but it's really disturbing to me that he would find his sister attractive in that way...

Whenever I wear anything the least bit revealing or tight or whatever he just stares, even if I notice. (not saying I do that a lot)

Recently I caught him peeking at me through the door while I was putting my bra on, and I actually saw him!

I got so pissed I just kicked him the nuts as hard as I could..

what should I do to get him to grow up and stop looking at me like that?

my friends all said he's weird and that I should just kick him in the balls if he ever perves on me again and that should get the message across.. should I do that?

Or should I tell my parents?

thanks

Answer 1

Tell him it's not appropriate. You haven't said how old you are, but I don't think it's a good idea to kick him in his "nuts" at all!

He's just curious, and while I'm not saying he's right, maybe you should just have a quiet word and tell him that it's natural to be curious but not with his sister! I personally wouldn't involve the parents at this stage as he may just get embarrassed!

[Hey, how come I got two thumbs downs? My answer is pretty good, I think! What's wrong with it?]

Answer 2

That's just wrong.

I haven't got a little brother but I've got an older one.

If he ever done something like that to me, i would punch him straight in the face and then try and get my boyfriend to beat him up :P

Although, my brother's a boxer so i can see that ending in disaster. . .

Answer 3

You need to tell your mother what is going on.

Answer 4

Haha, just tell your parents and they should sort him out...

Answer 5

omg what a loser

next time he stares down ur top grab his balls and squeeze them really hard until he cries and tell him if he ever does it again ull pop his balls and he wont able to use them anymore

he'll get the message ;)

Answer 6

It is kinda wierd that he would look at you that way but he is probably just looking and not neccessarily lusting .  kinda like looking at a playboy magazine and he found the real thing to look at but unfortunately it is his sister.  I would tell him and be stern about it that he is making you  feel uncomfortable and that if he does not stop you will tell their parents about it.  I really would not kick him in the nuts because I really think someone need to explain to him what he is doing and that his action is not appropriate not just because you are his sister but to any girl.  

Answer 7

He needs to be made aware of the fact that his behavior is lewd.

Answer 8

thats really weird you have a weird family your parents need to instill some morals into that boy he's your brother for goodness sake doesnt he know thats wrong?!

Answer 9

This is like, weird. I hope he isn't attracted to you cos that's .... incest! This is seriously wrong I mean has he never seen a pair of b*****s in his life or something? That is quite disturbing tell your parents and if he does it again kick him HARDER! Good luck! :)

Answer 10

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Answer 11

NEVER kick your brother in the balls. you could literally kill him. I understand your frustration. make sure that your bedroom door is closed an locked when you are getting dressed. If you don't have a lock on the door, get dressed in your bathroom. He is probably just a normal young boy that is always horny and has never seen breats up close so he is curious. I would tell him that if it ever happens again you will tell your parents and then do it. Please don't kick anymore. He could die.  

Answer 12

tell your parents girl, and protect yourself. he's just tooo00oooo curious on opposite s*x' body, and i don't think it's still normal, because he should be watching some other girls, not his own sister! let a psych see him..

Answer 13

Yes - definitely tell your parents - or even just your mother - she can talk to him - or have your father talk to him - as he gets older you don't want the situation getting worse or far more embarrasing....

Answer 14

ouuuchhh, try not to kick him so much

seriously u can mess up his sperm and he won't be able to have kids

sit down with your parents and tell them that he's being a bit "nosy" and won't keep his eyes to himself and that he needs to learn his sister is not a s*x object

Answer 15

Just nail him and ask him if he gets it while hes on the floor.