My little brother has very bad anger issues? (he's 11)?

Question

He's had it ever since he was young. He gets angry very easily, and tends to "get people back". Like, when we went to the pool and him and his friends were fighting with those swimming noodles. They barely even touched him and once he was hit he just kept on smacking them with the noodle really hard. My dad and I constantly yelled, "Stop!" but he continued doing it. I know we can get on each others' nerves, but he takes things way too seriously. Like one time he was shouting very loud and I told him to stop. So I went down stairs & got a bagel and he just smushed it with his hands and was mad the whole time. Also tonight I threw a stuffed animal at him in a playful manner so he would stop picking his nose, and he just started yelling and throwing things everywhere. I am constantly telling my parents he has anger issues but they blame it on me or don't care. The only time they care is when the anger is directed towards them.

What do I do?

This is REALLY getting on my nerves.

Answer 1

i have the same situation. my little brother has anger issues and if something goes wrong i get blamed. i dont know what to do either. just thought id share this..

Answer 2

I have a brother who is twelve and the same way and my parents didn't do anything either for a while these year and part of last they've started taking him places and he's having less outburst but because he's bigger they are more violent. I get through with a ot of prayer and trying to stay out of the way which can be really unfair but sometimes for the best.

Answer 3

im eleven  and those mother ****** a******s  deserved to get smacked

Answer 4

This reminds me of my brother. what i do is hug him really tight to where he cant move and i tell him i wont let him go until he calms down.  Try it . it works for me! =-)