My little brother is out of control, my parents give him all they can afford and so do I but he still yells an

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curses us out. He is 17 years old. He pushes my dad around literally, and gets supper made really easy. My parents and him just had a really bad fight and my dads heart was beating so hard that he thought he was about to have a heart attack. What can my parents do? Do not say take away his car because think about it how is he going to get to school and work.

Answer 1

That is the problem, he is spoiled.  He gets rewards for bad behavior.  There are buses he can ride to school and he could find another way to work so unless he bought the car himself and pays for insurance and gas then he should lose it for such horrible behavior.  He also shouldn't have anything, I mean anything bought for him.  He wants something he can work for it until he learns to straighten up.  

Answer 2

same thing happened with my father & my brother. eventually, they just stopped arguing with him. or if you want to be more harsh, have your parents tell him to follow their rules or he's out of the house, but really follow through with it. or maybe even send him off to college. or maybe you could even help him pay for an apartment.

Answer 3

if he was my little brother ill beat his stupid spoiled *** up  

Answer 4

I agree with holly

Answer 5

Your parents need to ground him.

If they are always giving him what he wants, he is going to expect more and more. Don't give him anything anymore. NOTHING. seriously, after a while, he will get used to it.

Answer 6

He can get free medical help for his diabetes...in jail!!

That is where he would be at 17 for striking your Dad.  

Why are you all coddling this BUM?

If he can go to work and school then he can take care of himself.

What can your parents do?  Hmmmm, I say

GROW A d**n BACKBONE.  

He is an ungreatful wretch of a person and the longer you all feed this monster the bigger he will grow.

So how long before we read about him killing the whole family?

What part of the world do you live in so I can stay tuned?

Throw this jack-@$$ out!!

Toot Sweet!

Peace

Answer 7

thearpy.

Answer 8

I know you're not going to like what I'm saying, but this is a serious, way serious problem. Your parents are not going to be able to handle it on their own. So they need to contact a counselor or some other person who might be of aid such as a psychiatrist, doctor, police, mental hospital.

Please seriously consider these options. He needs counseling and support and yelling at him isn't going to do that.