My little brother told me that he wants me to die and he is always hitting me

Question

i just don't understand why he does this i never did nothing to him.i love him but he treats me so bad i just want him to stop,he is my only brother.what should i do

Answer 1

Have your parents noticed this? Hitting isn't an acceptable behavior, and it's something that they need to handle.

When he hits you and talks to you about wanting to die, don't say anything. I'd grab his wrists tightly and stare into his eyes and tell him that no matter what he says to you, you will still love him because you're his sister. Then I'd say in a very sharp tone of voice: "you are going to stop hitting me. It's not OK to hit anyone. Hitting me is not OK. Hitting mom is not OK. Hitting dad? Not OK. It is not OK to hit people." Then let him go. Don't give him ultimatums about hitting, but every time he does it, get your parents involved.

Answer 2

My little sisters listen to me. Maybe you said something to him that hurt him...or because your female he feels entitled to say that...?

Answer 3

@ Taylor

So, b/c she's being molested, it gives you the right to make fun of her???  Have a heart.

EDIT: Taylor (or rather Taylor's mom) seems to have deleted the message....

Answer 4

if hes a kid then maybe its not too serious..he doesnt understand what is coming out of his mouth and what the ramifacations of his words mean...if hes an adult then he definitely has a problem....either way it goes that is definitely not normal,,,i sugest counseling and talking to ur parents and anger managment...he needs help..u did nothing wrong