My little sis is pregnant!?!?!So am I!!?

Question

My sis is 6 months pregnant with twins! Yups...a boy and a girl...I am 5 months pregnant with a baby boy. Its...cool actually. I am single and she is as well. My husband died 2 months ago from a heart attack. My sisters husband died 5 months ago from a car crash. We miss them so much.....well we moved in together and we decided to help support eachother with the rent, kids, life. Everything we are gonna be there for eachother no matter what. We are very close. I love my little sis. Anyways, her kids names are gonna be Aaron John(John was her husbands name) and Jessalyn Grace(she has just always loved this name 4realz we were 13 years old talking saying that was gonna be her daughters name) anyways, my sons name is gonna be Christopher Michael. (Christopher was my husbands name...we called him Chris) well thats that. I just wanted to tell everybody how joyus we are and how I know we are making the right decision. Anyways, ya...here is our tummys!!!hahaha!

Her tummy!

http://i142.photobucket.com/albums/r101/claud018/mypregnantbelly.jpg

My tummy!

http://posthipchick.blogspot.com/uploaded_images/7.5-706368.jpg

thx oh and how do u like our names 4 our babies? We are excited,nervous, anxious, and all!!!AHHH!!!thx! oh and there really isn't a question here...I was just venting how excited I am. THX!!!so how do u like our names 4 our babys? we aren't really sure with the name we have for her girl,even though both of us have liked it since we were 12 and 13. We don't really know. If you could help that we be gr8tful...but no matter what Grace is staying where it is....it was our mothers name.

♥ are u pregnant? Me and my sis would like to hear yall's stories too so we can just have a little more confidence in this. Thx pplz!

Answer 1

Congrats !  to both !

Answer 2

Oh congrats! I am happy for you both u and ur sis are preg at the same time that's cool. Sorry about ur husband though. U'll get through it. At least you both have each other. That's the best thing ever. Say congrats to ur sister also.

Oh I love twins! I hope my next one will be a twin since my BF has twins who run in his family.

Answer 3

the names are pretty. i also like the name freddie kona. it means world peace, or a variation.

Answer 4

Wow, you BOTH lost your husbands while pregnant (and one of them apparently a teenage heart attack victim, no less), and you are describing your situation as "cool"?  If (God forbid) my husband and brother in-law both died within months of one another, leaving behind two wives who were expecting babies that the husbands would never get the chance to meet, "cool" is about the last word I would use to describe the situation.

Women who have lost their husbands don't typically refer to themselves as "single."

EDIT (To Jimmy's wife):  Sorry, but what I find to be "hateful" are trolls who come here with their unbelievable stories of grief, just looking for attention.  Some of us have actually lived through some of these tragedies, and they are nothing to make light of or pretend about.

She types like a teenager, her Q&A profile is set to "private," she refers to herself as "single" (as opposed to widowed), she describes the situation with her sister as "cool," despite her claims that they both lost their husbands very recently, and despite her young age, her husband supposedly died of a heart attack.  Yeah, right.  This just smacks of a fantasy scenario she cooked up in her head, where she and her sister could move in together and play house with their babies.

Talk to someone who actually HAS experienced the loss of a spouse during her pregnancy or shortly after her baby was born.  I can assure you, she wouldn't describe the situation as "cool," and I am certain she wouldn't appreciate other people joking around about it and minimizing the true magnitude of such an occurrence (when it happens in REAL life, not make-believe).

Answer 5

Well the names are great and well thought out. I would say they are meaningful and that's all that matters. I'm sorry to hear about your situation, but taking care of each other is probably the best thing you could do as a family. I just wanted to say good luck to the both of you and keep those babies happy and healthy! May their daddy's live through them forever! :)

Answer 6

I don't know why some people here are just so "hateful."

Truth or not, sorry to hear about the passing of your spouses, and wishing you a healthy and easy pregnancy/birth.  Take good care of yourselves and your babies.