My little sister wants to sleep with me this night, I would let her but isn't it bad?

Question

She's 6 and I'm her older brother (I'm 18 XD XD). I'll not go with friends out this night and I'll watch T.V.

When she knew it she asked me for sleep this night with me. I would let her but isn't it bad?. Do you think it's bad?.

Thanks a lot and greetings to all the answerers from Wyoming, USA! johnny malcolm.

Answer 1

Let me just trace down your IP and your Freudian slips.

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Answer 2

yea i'm with ruth if you have to ask then it's probably not a good idea. say goodnight and ask her to sleep in her own bed.

Answer 3

your little sister looks up at you so you are a happy bro !!!!

I don't think there is any problem in your case.

But wheater you fell something bad....so just don't allow she to sleep with you or just let she sleep with you but then you should probably move to another room when she was falling asleep

That's very nice to have a younger sister and i guess you are also a good brother  

Answer 4

No, it's actually really not. If she were like 16 then it would be bad, but the two of you are 12 years apart, so it shouldn't be bad.

If you don't feel comfortable with here in the bed with you and she really wants to stay with you tonight, just let her sleep on the opposite side of the bed.  

Answer 5

No I think its fine for her to sleep with you. She is just a child and trust me that never crossed her little mind. If I wanted to just hang out with my brother and watch tv all night and sleep in the same bed thats fine, and he 2 years younger than me, I am 20. Neither one of us would be bothered by it were family

Answer 6

Honestly that is a huge age gap... so it is usually not right for that young of a girl to sleep in the same bed as an 18 year old, no matter if she is your sister or not.  Maybe she can sleep in a sleeping bag on the floor?  Or maybe sit with her until she falls asleep, then move to a different room.  Either one can work. :)

Answer 7

its fine!!

shes your sister..its not as if your a child malester.

Answer 8

I know shes and you love her but she us a girl so help her to understand that shes a big girl and can sleep  by herself

Answer 9

In my family, i used to sleep with my dad or mom or little bro. Aslong as your not sick in the mind its perfectly fine

Answer 10

I think she just want to bond with you as her brother.

Answer 11

She will see things a 6 year old girl shouldn't see as you change into your night clothing and what happens when you handle yourself during your sleep and have a wet dream.She may also, if its a small bed accidentally come into contact with any erection.

It is a very bad thing to do.

Answer 12

no its its not bad as someone said you have no wrong ideas i am 50 now but when i was 15 my younger brother was little about 6 many times i woke up to find him asleep on bottom of my bed there was nothing wrong in it he just wanted to be by me be careful  

Answer 13

She loves you, your her big bro and she feels safe and secure with you, it's sweet.... society has put such a stigma on this- but I do understand the controversy... have a"camp out" on the living room floor- both of you can have your own sleepbag/cot and your still satisfying her need for the closeness~!

Answer 14

I think if you are wondering about it being bad....you probably should not do it.

Answer 15

no just want comfort an reasurance yr hr big bro she looks up to u  

Answer 16

when you say sleep with her do u mean what married people r supposed to do? If so dont do it its like worlds biggest sin and get her a counselor.

If you mean the harmless one where babies arent made  still say no and give her a teddy bear to sleep with.

Answer 17

I assume you don't mean anything perverse with this question. If you do, then I'd -definitely- have to state that you shouldn't do it.

Otherwise, it's still not generally a good idea, particularly given her age. But if it's not something she asks for a lot and you think it would make her feel better, once in a great, great while couldn't hurt, at least so long as she's still a child. You could treat it like a "slumber party" or some such - it might actually be quite fun if you make a game of it.

Answer 18

hey, there a lot of kids that sleep with older siblings, girl or boy. She needs to have your affection and comfort. U are old enough to exercise self control. If you doubt urself then dont.  Otherwise, i see nothing bad about it. I have slept with cousins, both boy and girl. Im an only child so i never had the opportunity to sleep with a sibling, younger of older. But if i had brothers and sisters, i would not had a problem with sleeping with my little sister or brother. Many families have no choice in the matter.

Answer 19

I don't think there is anything bad in that. It sounds like you have a good relationship with your sister, and if you feel comfortable with her sleeping in your bed I don't think it is a bad thing at all.