My man nearlly killed my 4yr old son!!I?

Question

As a mum of 2 with another on the way, you sometimes need a man to help out with things, though i have just found out that sometimes men arn't the best people to turn to.

i left for work at 8.00 as usual, leaving my boyfreind to look after my kids. He was to take my eldest (7yr old girl) to a freinds house and find something to do with my youngest son.

Later, when i came home the house was all quiet, i just thought they had gone out somewhere.

I went into the kitchen, started making dinner when i heard this shouting noise coming from my utility room. I wemt to see what it was. The door was locked. I unlocked the door to see what it was, I then found out that my man (Ste) had attempted to murder my son. (I take it he's dumped me!)

I am really worried about the safety of my children, particually now i know that Ste has left with my spare key.

I really do not know what to do to keep my children safe. Now they are really worried about being at home whilst i am at work what suld i do?

Answer 1

Oh my gosh..

thats so scary.

Ok, call the police NOW!

they will know what to do.

Also, change ALL your locks and also get some security systems in.

Get this man arrested NOW!

the world is not safe with this.

get him arrested for attempted murder.

Keep your children in site at all times.

You might want the police around for awhile until you think it is safe.

Just do something.

Lock all your windows and make sure there is an alarm if the window get broken or opened.

The security measures are a must.

keeping your children in site is a must.

Getting to the police, getting protection from them, and arresting this guy is the BIGGEST priority.

He may be your friend but you must not let him do this to anyone again!!!

Follow these and the other great people on yahoo and keep you and your children safe.

Even if I do not get best answer, just please let me know how it turns out.

I cannot rest until I know you and your children are safe.

Your fellow caring yahoo friend.

Answer 2

GO TO THE POLICE! That should have been the first thing you did. Press charges on him.

Who give a $#%& if he dumped you, your babies are more important and you shouldn't want to be with that scumbag.

I suggest you go get off the computer and go get help right now!!

Answer 3

Shocking, you poor little boy!. Just call the police - please and follow any professional advice to help your boy.

Answer 4

Take your son to the hospital, file a domestic abuse report, have all the injuries noted, and get the police involved. You can get an emergency restraining order today and worry about going to court next week.

Answer 5

change your locks or move one of the 2

Answer 6

A four year old and a seven year old should never be left alone at home. You need to find someone to babysit them while you are work. Take them to daycare or a family member's house. If you can afford to, change the locks, they cost you about 10 dollars each at home depot. And it's only a couple of screws to change them. You need to find someone to watch your kids while you are at work.

Answer 7

why would you leaave your children (oldest being 7 at that!) at home with a boyfriend the only person who u should ver leave your children wih is their father and possibly your husband (children r getting killed and raaped over this!) u also need to check with your some on why he was trying to kill him because he prolly tried to rape your son and he prolly refused and he probably tried to kill him!

Answer 8

You should probably call the police. Common sense would tell you that. Change your locks as well.

Answer 9

how did so many of you come to the conclusion that she left the kids home alone?? no where  does she even hint at that sheesh.

make sure you call the police and have his *** picked up for domestic abuse and any other charge you can slap on him, since i dont know how bad he hurt your son i dont know what all charges that could be. they will tell you what steps you need to take.

and yes change your locks  its pretty simple to install a new doorknob  you can probably do it yourself.

and if you made this up, you really need to seek professional help, and get a hobby this one isnt working for you

Answer 10

Sorry i have having trouble believing this .... so this happened today and your at your PC and looking at the answers you have given 'helping with baby names' doesn't seem like a woman who has just been through this big ordeal ...wouldn't you like have police protection or writing a statement for the police ?

Answer 11

get a restraining order!

Answer 12

You should call the police and make sure he doesn't get anywhere near your children.

Answer 13

What was he doing to him? like physically beating him up? either way you should change every lock, find a new babysitter (duh) and call the police. describe exactly what happened: about locking the door, taking the key, all of his information, everything you know. If you son was harmed in any way from it, then bring him to the police to show the bruises and cuts that he has. If he wasn't injured he can still be arrested for attempted murder, but not like physical abuse. Best wishes to you and your family!

Answer 14

Change the locks on your house. Contact the police and possibly get a restraining order. Maybe purchase a weapon for your own protection and have someone stay with the children, they are too young to stay home by themselves.

Answer 15

dum his *** the murder him! lol just kidding that would be naughty.

Answer 16

CALL THE COPS NOW AND CHANGE THE LOCKS IMMEDIATELY! Take him to court and get a restraining order on him and have him arrested for attempted murder!

But no sh*t--if this really happened you'd be on the phone with the police and you'd be chasing his *** with a steak knife.

Answer 17

This should be obvious.  Find someone you know and trust to watch your children for you.

And call the police and report your boyfriend.

Answer 18

For one thing, get yourself a job writing fiction like this for true confessions magazines.

If this had really happened, you'd be hysterical and talking with the police right now, wouldn't you?  And not patiently  writing a little essay to post on-line.

Answer 19

try to set a restraining order against him

  change the locks



tell your kids that if they see him, pretend that he is just a wall and that he doesn't exist

also, do not leave them alone in the house they are very young get a babysitter

Answer 20

wow....

change the lock and buy a security system...also call the police

Answer 21

call the police

change the locks

look for a new place

get therapy for the kids asap!

Answer 22

yes thats the best idea to change the locks and tell the police.

Answer 23

Well a few things come to mind...

1.  Call the police to report this and have him arrested

2.  Change your locks

3.  Does someone watch your kids while you're at work?  If not, YOU should be arrested for leaving a 4 year old and 7 year old home alone.

Answer 24

I think this all sounds so far-fetched and unlikely that a far more likely scenario is that you are making this all up and it's actually you that needs help. I would take a printout of this question to your doctor and ask him what medication he recommends.

Answer 25

I thought ownership of human beings was outlawed over 100 years ago...How can any man be YOUR man?  Where did you purchase this "gem" of a man?  And why would you leave your children in the hands of a man whom your not married to and who isn't their father to begin with?  

To keep safe change the locks on your door, then call the police.  He ASSAULTED your child!