My man touring for a week ?

Question

My husband I are producers (dance music), dj's. We had a rough 8 months in the beg. of our relationship and I got hurt by his lies and temper.

He never cheated but did disrespect me a lot.

He is to go on tour for the first time to the UK and now I am scared even though we have stabilized our relationship. I am still healing though from the last time he lied to me and know that he wouldn't ever cheat on me. I have FAITH in his talents but I am afraid I can't be alone in this house for a week without him just yet. Any advice?

Thanks in advance!

Answer 1

What are you, a child?  Go to your mother's....then directly to your room!  No supper.

One lousy week!  Let the women whose husbands are in Irag and Afghanistan answer you.

Answer 2

Let him go to the UK.  Try not to worry; get busy with something else that you like and that you can feel good about, ie. gym, dance, reading, cooking, have a party.

Focus on developing your own life, that's your side of the marriage equation.

Answer 3

" I got hurt by his lies and temper.

He never cheated but did disrespect me a lot."

He will never change. Divorce him.

I left mine for the same problem.

I feel much better now. You will be feeling better too, honey.