My massuse turns me on. Is that normal? Should I let him know?

Question

My massuse turns me on. Is that normal? Should I let him know?

Answer 1

As your massage therapist is a male, he is called a masseur.  Masseuses are always female.  Yes, it's extremely normal.  You can let him know if you'd like to.  It will take much of the tension or energetic charge out of the air, and may make him or you or both of you more comfortable, but perhaps you are enjoying that tension a bit?  He more than likely already knows, it's not like attraction isn't an obvious thing, especially as he's an energy worker.

Answer 2

yes its normal, no i wouldnt tell him

Answer 3

It really depends on if you think you have any chance of getting with him.  If you can't (ie he has a wife and kids), it will probably make the situation awkward, but if he seems like a nice open minded person I don't think he'll fuss about it.

I have enough sensitivity from doing body/energetic work (and I'm in no means an expert or trained...although my system is a bit different from the normal ones) that I can tell if a girl I'm working on is getting turned on.  Thus, if he's competent, I highly doubt that he hasn't noticed it as well.

At the end of the day, it's your decision on what you want to do, but I have a feeling you're not the only person he's had this come up with, and he probably has a mature way of dealing with it!

Answer 4

I would not tell him. If it goes wrong then you wont be getting those nice massages anymore. of course if you are both single both of age, and are willing to risk the friendship in hopes of more, why not. However, alot of times, these kind of feelings are misconstrued.