My mexican boyfriend and I want to get married....

Question

Hi. My boyfriend was born and raised in mexico and he came to the US illegally. We have been together for over a year and we want to get married. It would definately be a real marriage not one of the I'll pay you 10,000 dollars to marry me kinda thing. I love him more than anything. My question is what would we have to do in order to get him his papers once we are married. And how long would it take to be finalized? What are the risks? How much does it cost? What are all the steps? All I want is to be able to spend the rest of my life with him and not worry that he's going to be deported. Any answers would be appreciated.

Answer 1

Here's an honest answer.

He must return to Mexico before you can do anything.  It's simply not possible for him to adjust his status while inside the United States.  It can't be done and that's a no BS answer.

After you get married you will file an I-130, I-864 and G-325A with the USCIS.  In about a year he's going to get a letter instructing him to report to the US consulate in Juarez, Mexico for an interview.

After the interview he's going to be rejected and banned for 10 years.  At this point he's going to file an I-601 which is a request for a Waiver of Inadmissibility.  If he has no criminal record and if he's never been caught and sent back before his chances of gettting the waive are pretty good.  He'll most likely be in Mexico about a year before coming back legally.

You can find the forms here...

http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/m...

Answer 2

Go live a happy life in Mexico. The land of opportunity. The best thing is, you will have a lot less red tape.

Answer 3

you can go ahead and get married and then you should consult a immigration lawyer and they can advise you. He will probably have to go back to mexico for a while hoe long just depends ( my friend and her husband only had to wait for 2 weeks) before 9-11 you could do all the paper work form the states and just pay a fine for being here illegally. I cant believe ho racist some people are . my husband is mexican and we have 2 beautiful girls and we are not on welfare nor have we ever received any government help. we both work and we own 3 cars and a house. My husband does not do drugs or smoke nor does he drink. He is a wonderful husband and father. good luck it may cost you a little bit of money but is worth it.

Answer 4

im not sure you may just have to google it i know he has to get a green card so try to get him one  and whats up with all that stuff that did you get the memo was sayin  is he a racist but any way he needs to shut up it doesnt matter what race your are it matters if u love him and moody mandy WHY IS THERE SO MUCH RACISTM AGAINST HER MANBECAUSE HE IS A MEXICAN SO WHAT HE CAN BE ANY COLOR THEY LOVE EACH OTHER!!!

Answer 5

How about he applies for citizenship first, they there wont be any problems.

also call this number  1-866-347-2423 and give them the information and they will be sure to help you

Answer 6

get  him a green card he will stay for a little while marry him he becomes a us citzern but if hes already in the country i dont no sorry hope the other stuff helped

Answer 7

Marriage will not help your criminal boyfriend get papers. He must go home and apply from there. If he does not leave,if he is caught he will be deported and banned from the country.  

Answer 8

Go to Mexico, preferably his home town and get married there.  You will have no problem getting legal papers from the immigration service once you are married.  You must ask permission first, even when you are married.  Make sure your future husband is interested enough to start his application for citizenship.

Answer 9

my friend  got deported

Answer 10

If all you want is to be able to spend the rest of your life with him, then why don't the two of you go to Mexico to live where he is legal?

"He's never been in any kind of trouble with the law."

Only because he hasn't been caught. He is breaking the law because he is illegal. He has been breaking law every moment he stayed in the country illegally. He is a criminal and if you don't like people pointing that out, then maybe you shouldn't point it out his criminal activity to them. As to him being such a wonderful guy, then why is one of your other questions posted about him concerning you not liking him watching p**n, the kind with anal s*x?

And for that one poster, people don't hate immigrants, they hate illegal immigrants.

My comment was to point out you aren't being truthful with your "He is a very good guy" comment. If he really was so wonderful then you wouldn't have a problem with him, especially not one you felt you had to post here. I never said there was anything wrong with him watching p**n. You did. And I notice that you have no comment about my other statement which calls into question about how good a guy he really is, being a criminal and continuing his criminal activity. Just because you buy your propaganda doesn't mean others have to. And my original answer wasn't racist and neither were any of my other remarks. They have to do with him being illegal and doing something illegal and continuing to do it. If all you really care about is being with him and having a family with him, then it won't matter where you do it. So go to his country where he is legal and start your life together there.

And maybe you can explain to me why it is wrong for people not to like it when others do something illegally, especially when that illegal act is against their country.

Answer 11

move to Mexico get married there then come here legally

just a suggestion

Answer 12

This is not the place to get good advice. All the racist a- wholes of the world unite here and hate on Mexicans. Good luck, love will always work its way through!

Answer 13

ok

Answer 14

I think the best that you can do is to contact an immigration attorney who can tell you the legal process.

SOME people here hate immigrants so is not a good idea to ask them because they are blinded by their prejudices.

Answer 15

my boyfriend is Mexican too. go to the justice of peace & he'll give u a marriage license, wait a few years to file for green card cuz if you do it right now he will get deported. oh & to the guy who called him a WB dont quit your day job babe cuz Mexicanos do it the best! Viva la Raza!!

Answer 16

Forget it there's nothing short of him taking his bad self back to Mehico to make him legal now. He will be deported you should've thought of that before defiling yourself................................

Addios on a leaky boat.......................................

Answer 17

um, hi. i'm not being sarcastic or silly, but there's this show called Citizen Pinoy. i think that will help. the host there really helps people, with different problems. so yeah, i think u should try to be a guest there. if u do want to, e-mail me so i'll send u what u have to send them to be a guest.