My military guy is leaving.... To go or not to go.?

Question

My kinda sorta military guy is leaving to Iraq. I posted other questions about our relationship asking weather it was s*x or love. alot of people said s*x. i don't know if i'm blind but the bottom line is i love him. and he really wants me to go see him before he ships out to Iraq. Our relationship is good but kinda in limbo. we have no official title, but are basically together. i think visiting him may finally give out relationship a firm definition. i know it means a whole lot to him if i go. so do i go or do i not go??

Answer 1

If you truely love him then deffinatley go see him before he leaves, and DON'T cheat on him after he leaves.  

Answer 2

im sorry love, if your relationship has no definition, then there is no point going to see him. He just wants to satisfy his lust, please do excuse me for saying so. You will sleep with him, and he will be gone, thats it, now its upto you whether you want to sleep with him and lose your respect or, end this respectfully and with dignity. :) Cheer up girl! there are other fish in the sea!

Answer 3

go the least you can do for yourself and him is see him off god forbid the worst happens while hes gone

Answer 4

Wether your together or not, you have feelings for him and he's deploying the best thing you can do is show your support him and go and see him. When you get there ask hey do you wanna be together or no? Best thing right now is to support him 100%.