My mom's boyfriend just moved into our house...?

Question

My moms boyfriend of 1 1/2 years just moved in with us. His 16 year old son (Jason) comes to stay with his dad every other week. The other day I was out with my boyfriend and a few of my friends, and I was supposed to be home alone, but I forgot that this was the week he was supposed to come. He didn't come on Monday when he was supposed to, so I thought he wasn't going to come.

That night I was coming home with my boyfriend, and we were going to my room to watch a movie, and when I opened my door, Jason was sitting on my bed jacking off! I kinda gasped and quickly shut the door cause I didn't know what to do. I didn't say anything and my boyfriend didn't say anything either. At the time. Today he called and asked what was up. I haven't talked to Jason about it and don't know if I should. What should I tell my boyfriend? How do I bring this up with Jason?

Answer 1

Sweetie, don't let this creep get by with this.

First , tell your mom........ the boyfriend might go balistic if he is told first and then go after the guy and mom might get angry with you and the boyfriend and have pity on this creep.

So get the mom involved, have her take over for the son of the lover, get a lock on the door so only you can get into your room and not let this happen in your room. if he can't control himself, hes got lots of problems. Make sure the boyfriend of moms is told by mom.

Then go to your boyfriend and tell him everything and that you did this this way because of his safety and not getting in trouble with mom.

Then investigae on the creep and don't let him stay over until he gets help

Answer 2

You need to tell Jason he needs to do that kind of stuff in his own room, come on. You don't need to explain anything to your boyfriend, but I would talk to your mom about it.

Answer 3

First you could ask him(Jason) what was he doing in your room. And let him know under no certain terms did you like what you saw when you walked in on him. But you also have to understand at the age of 16 he is going to do things like that. Which it still gave him no right to do that in your room. If you are a open minded person, suggest to him that he needs to "take care of business" in the bathroom or not do it at all while it is his week to be there. It wont't fall off and he won't die refraining from that sort of thing while he is in your mom's home.

If your boyfriend saw the same thing you saw then he knows it was just as much of a shock to you as it was to him. Unless he wants to talk about it then just it go. Things happen and if you love each other then you both know it was just a bad circumstance that you two happened to stumble upon.  

Answer 4

ok heres the answer no could or buts

1. Tell your boyfriend what is going on in the house with Jason

2. Tell mom to have a chat with new boyfriend about jason he will probably be banned or what ever.

There would be nothing worse than him doing that c**p in your room, i mean what else could he be doing? he obvously has a thing for you sooo instead of it getting worse put a stop to it before its to late.

Anything could happen. be responsible! tell mom you didnt wanna tell her this but bla bla bla and leave mom deal with it.

If mom wont tell her boyfriend then maybe you should...

Answer 5

I think you should ask your mom if you can move in with your boyfriend.  After all it is ok for her to be living with a guy.  Tell  her it is getting too crowded for your liking.  I would also tell her what her lover's son did on your bed.  GET A LOCK.