My mom's getting married

Question

i dont really know if i want a knew stepdad.i know i cANT STOP IT BUT HES the church owners son which is good for her but to me its like the only thing they talk about is god and i wanna tell them to shut up but ill get in trouble.

Answer 1

just tell em "if u say one more thing bout god imma kill myself"

Answer 2

Well if you don't wont her to get marryed then talk to her. If she does then it will be for the best                      p.s.Is your mom a hoe I will rent her.

Answer 3

I know exactly how you feel, that happened to me not too long ago... except my mom had been having an affair with my dad and ended up marrying the man she was cheating with. Anywhoo, I know how you feel and even after years of telling her to be quiet about religion because its annoying to hear about it all the time she thinks I'm joking, which is mostly my fault since I'm sarcastic and use hyperboles more than should be legal. I know this isn't much help, but you really should talk to your mom, I know thats stupid advice but it's the only way the two of you can come to an understanding... I didn't do that in time, so please save yourself!

Answer 4

Yah u dont want to tell them to shut up but try to change the subject once in a while like start talk about somthing right away to kep there mind of that.But you know god is a good thing.But They dont need to talk about it constantly

Answer 5

You can't ask ur mom to be unhappy just cos ur unhappy. I know it drives u insane when people constantly talk abt something that pisses you off.

When they talk abt it, avoid being with them. Also try talking to your mom abt it, gently.

If you're over 18, get a job and move out or go to college.

Answer 6

There is not much you can do that won't cause ill feelings, i know it's hard but when they talk about it leave the room

Answer 7

jus go 2 ur room and say that they suck in ur mind

Answer 8

talk to your mom about it. my mom just got married about 2 days ago. you are your moms daughter your opinion will matter to her a lot.

Answer 9

it's only going to get worse when they get married.  there are so many other better subjects to discuss too.

Answer 10

lol!

I can totally relate with you.  My stepfather and mother were religious fanatics and it drove me ape sh*t.  Here's the deal, people are going to construct their own mythologies about the world no matter what you tell them.  Some people have more active imaginations than others.  It's better to embrace them for their devotion, commitment, and imagination than it is to condemn them for their ignorance and small mindedness.  

Keep in mind that your mom has a life too, she wants to be happy and you have to do your best to make sure that she is happy and protected which means learning to embrace your stepfather.  There's an expression that goes, "you can choose your friends but you can't choose your family" well that's very true.  

Learn to accept them, if they try to push it on you and tell you that "you're going to h**l" for "believing that we came from monkeys" the way my parents did...don't proceed to tell them that "they have the mind and imagination of a six year old" the way I did.  Instead, try, "it bothers me that you as my parents would suggest such a thing."

I hope that they are not as bad as my parents were.  Try to help your mom to be happy and if necessary make a count down calendar for when you can leave for college that is how I got through it.

Good luck!

Answer 11

Let your mom be happy, she deserves it.

Answer 12

I'm in your EXACT position right now. Minus the church stuff. I don't really know if I want 3 new step siblings. I don't know if I want my house shared with them, and all of my stuff. I'm gonna have 7 kids in my family. But my mom and uh my fiance? step dad? step dad fiance? talk about stuff they did when I was at my dads house, so I have no idea, I want to tell them to shut up too!!! I guess we both have to just ask them to talk about something that can include all of us.

Answer 13

i know what you mean, my friends mom and dad are church pastors and all they talk abouth is god but once you get the hang of its kida peace full to hear the word of god

Answer 14

Tell your mom to be sure she has a pre nuptual agreement signed before she marries the dude.

He could be a "gold digger" if she owns her own home or anything of value.

Answer 15

then don't tell them to shut up. the only thing you can do is deal.

Answer 16

veto

Answer 17

hm, well you should be hapy if your mum is happy, but i know this isnt always the case.

if you talk to any kid whos parent has gotten re-married, they will say that at one point or another they were unhappy about it, and i suppose your situation is worse because you are not happy with the religious aspects of their relationship.

maybe you should sit your mum down and talk to her about it, if she is a god parent she will listen to you and discuss matters reasonably with you. dont be offensive, just say that it annoys you slightly that he seems to not have any hobbies or intrests anymore and that you are worried about her.

x good luck x