My mom HATES all my back to school clothes and wants me to return them and I love them. What do I do?????

Question

Idk y she is so upset because there is nothing wrong with what I bought!!!!! She gave me the $ and dropped me and my friend at the mall and then tonight she wanted to see what I bought and she got mad. She wants me to return everything!!!!!!! I just got stuff from A&F that EVERYBODY wears. Y is she being like this???? I just wanna keep the clothes. I babysat this whole summer and did everything I was suposed to and she said she'd give me the money and now its like she's taking it all back! i'm 15 and its like she wants me to dress like my 9 year old sister!!!! Its crazy.

What do I do? Have yer parents ever told u cant wear something? What did u do?

HELP ME!

Answer 1

If it is pretty much modest and ya know, good enough to wear to school. I don't see what's wrong with it. Talk to her, remind her that back in her day too it was like everyone wore basically the same things. Labels... ya know. And if she doesn't agree take it back, and go to Hollister or American Eagle. lol

Answer 2

My mother doesn't let me wear anything with the color pink, purple, yellow, or any less-than manly color. She also prohibits me from buying semi-skinny jeans. Also, tight shirts are a no-no.

So, I buy them anyways and prove to her that it's the current style by talking to her and showing her that what I wear looks good.

Just sit down and tell her that it's the current style and that you are growing up and feel the need to change styles every once in a while.

Either that or buy the clothes and hide them. Then in the morning wear what your mother wants you to wear but take the clothes you really want to wear in your backpack. Get to school, head to the nearest restroom, and change outfits! Just make sure to change back before you get home. :)

Answer 3

if there ok and not S****y

i would be like "OMG i lost the reciept!!!!"

Answer 4

well i go to a private co-ed school. So i dont have to worry about what i wear cause every1 else wheres what i wear.

Is it sluttish? I hope not. Maybe it shows to much skin. Get jeans instead of that mini-skirt. Then she'll be happy

i agree with the person below me 2

Answer 5

your clothes are to expensive probaly, If YOU are the one paying for them you dont have to take them back but if SHE bought them and wants you to return them do what she says she is your mother and provides you with alot more than clothes, so just return them

think about it, if you went to A&E and bought like what 3 shirts? that already is a total of like $90. you dont have to dress like everybody else. it is better to be different then a copy. which is what you are

Answer 6

yea my moms done this to me a few times and sometimes shes right sometimes shes wrong so if i were you i would take a step back and look at this from my moms point of view ask yourself why doesnt she like these clothes are they too tight to short what and then when you have a good idea why she doesnt like them calm down and have a conversation with her about why she doesnt like some of them and if she still is being stubborn and wants them returned you guys are going to have to compromise like she picks 3 things she really doesnt want you wereing or something like that and if shes not willing to trust you why did she let you go buy clothes yourself i hope you work things out

Answer 7

I've gone to a private school my entire life & have been wearing a so not cute uniform since I was 4, so count your blessings. : )

I totally get your frustration, but you're going to have to chill down a bit in order to work this out. Your mom is more likely to listen to you if you can speak with her about this calmly. Right now it sounds like she just wants you to return the clothes and exchange them for something else? If you make her really mad she might just make you return them.....and not get new clothes, and that would seriously blow. Try the clothes on for her and show her that they aren't too short / too tight / too whatever she's objecting to. If they are too short or too tight, then.....just be calm, return them and get something that is cute but not like snap! crackle! pop! s**y-cute.

And yes, the rents have objected to my clothes. My dad HATES my destroyed jeans. Whatever. He wore bell bottoms back in the day. I've seen the pictures.

The only time I had to change was when I wore a shirt that read "Save a Drum. Bang a Drummer."

: )

Answer 8

Well, my mom let me choose my own clothes from the time I was 2, within reason. Maybe she thinks you chose clothes that are not flattering or show too much. Have you talked to her about WHY she doesn't like them and WHY you chose them. Sit down and talk to her like an adult, and you may get more respect.

Answer 9

Your lucky your mom let you go by yourself.

My grandmom won't let me go casue she doesn't think i'll get enough for my money.

but in reality its cause she wants to make sure i'm not getting anything she doesn't like.

Answer 10

Stand ur ground and dont give in.

Answer 11

wow!

wut did ur dad say?

just be like "mother! WHY CANT I HAVE THESES CLOTHES!

I DONT WANNA DRESS LIKE A LITTLE KID! PLEASE LET ME KEEP EM!" then start crying hysterically!

there not mini skirts and S****y outfits r they?!?!?