My mom always makes my hair the way SHE wants it?

Question

I'm a guy and I have long hair because I like it, and it looks nice and unique on me even my cousins say so(there all girls). Now my mom is always bit***** at me to cut it short so we went to the hair cutter and she cut it SOOOO short like close to my hairline it looks so ugly. I'm so mad at her right now she has a problem with everything I do even buying new clothes which she btw never does for me. I don't ask ym parents for much I loved my long hair even my friend nicole said it looked nice now its all gone AHHHH I hate it so much my mom doesn't understand she never does i'm so mad I can't even talk.

I don't want to go back to school like this I feel like I look ugly, and no im not g*y there is nothing g*y about wanting to look good. I dont even ask my parents for stuff like ipods, laptops and all this other c**p that normal kids ask for. The only thing I ask for is clothes and yet they deny me that even when I need clothes. I feel like my mom is holding me back I dont even feel the same without my old hair im mad beyond reason right now.

Answer 1

If you live in a trailer park u have your answer.  Also, Tell your friends that u fell asleep first @ a sleepover with ur cousin's and they cut ur hair.  And i think you should call the cops on them because they will not buy u new clothes.  Or just tell them that it's their job to provide u with clothes and that ur a growing boy and u need new clothes.  Btw i don't mean to sound rude but wtf is ur parent's problems????

Good Luck!

Answer 2

This happened to our son, too, when he was 15 last summer. I took him to Sports Clips and we were talking about football. Instead of cutting our son's hair, this woman ran the clippers right up the middle of the back of his head and then said, 'Is this what you want?'  'Shyeit no,' that wasn't what we wanted but it was too late! She had ruined my son's beautiful hair by giving him an Army looking cut. I swear that it wasn't one inch long any place that I looked. I hated his hair cut as badly as he did.

I didn't tell her to cut our son's hair in a buzz cut but for some reason, this woman was thinking of whom only knows what when she ran those clippers right down the middle of our boy's hair.  She had ruined his thick, slightly longish, beautiful hair. And the cut wasn't flattering on him at all. It took every bit of four months for his hair to grow back like it used to be.

Anyway, I told him we weren't going back there for a hair cut

ever again. I even called and complained to Sports Clips' main office. Of course no one ever had a manager call me back.  I expected them to call me and offer us about two or three FREE haircuts at least! And I had to pay for the haircut or they probably would have called the cops on us.

Try dealing with this the best you can. Your hair will grow out long again in a few months. But the next time your mom says

anything about going to get a haircut, either tell her you will go with your dad when he gets his cut or get a friend to drive you to have your hair trimmed and shaped.

You didn't say how old you are, but I have a feeling that you are probably old enough to decide how short you need to cut your hair. Your mom sounds like she really needs a chill pill.

There is absolutely no reason for your mom to constantly be

B * * * * * * * about how short she wants your hair to be and what style she wants for your hair.

When I was growing up, my mom was exactly the same way as yours except mine insisted on putting my hair in brush type rollers every single night. I complained that they hurt my head and I couldn't sleep well with those rollers in my hair. So then, she switched to the spongey type of rollers and I still hated it. When I was 16, my mother told me to get a chair and sit in the den while she rolled my hair. I just exploded saying 'I was 16, I was old enough to do my own hair and I was sick of sleeping in curlers.' She said something really nasty back to me and my dad jumped her @$$ really bad. I had never heard my dad threaten my mother like that before, but I could see the steam coming out of his ears. I guess that was one reason I was a 'daddy's girl.'

Then I used hot rollers in my hair before school every single morning because mother just refused to let me wear my hair straight like most other girls did. After mother got old, she told

me a couple of times, 'gee, your hair sure is getting long' and I said 'well, you never let me have it long and straight when I was a teen living at home and I wanted to let it grow out once in my life before I got old.'  She never said anything to me again about my hair being too long and too straight.  I have been wearing it this way for about eight yrs now and my mom has passed away now.

But I sure understand where you are coming from since my son's hair got buzzed off last year. When his dad takes him to get a haircut, he tells the lady to just trim it up and style it. And our son is fine with that because he now gets to wear his hair the way he pretty much wants to wear it. People that haven't ever been in this position before don't always understand.  

Let someone cut your mom's hair way too short one time and see if she doesn't raise ten thousand different kinds of  h e* *  about hating her hair cut. It should only be fair that your dad tells your mom how he wants her hair cut super short and how he wants it styled. LOL! That would be funny if he turned the tables on your mom.  ;)

Next time it is time for a trim, go get it trimmed without either one of them being with you. There is no need, unless you are a small boy, for your mom or dad to tell you how much hair to cut off and how to style it. Judging from the way you write, you should be old enough to wear your hair sort of longish if you want to. Just keep it neat, clean, nicely styled and out of your eyes.

Try not to argue with your mom. Just jump ahead of the game next time and slip out on your own to get your hair trimmed the way you want it. Getting a trim every two to three months is supposed to help your hair grow faster.

Give her the cold shoulder until you can deal with her over-bearing manner and bytchy temper!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!    Ã¢Â˜Âº

Answer 3

Okay, your wording is a little weird, so clairify for me

Does your mom cut your hair

or

do you go to the salon with your mom and she tells the stylist how to cut your hair?

If it's the former, stop letting your mom cut your hair.

if it's the latter, stop going to the salon with your mom. Srsly, aren't you too old to be babysat by your mother at the hair salon?

Answer 4

u know what they say mom knows best for its maybe for the best anyway but just try to talk to her and make her understand  u and tell her how u fell if she doesn't want to listen to u make her fell bad and tell her if she ain't going to listen to u was the point of her claiming u as her son just tell her take a minute of ur time to listen to me for one minute that's all i ask tell her and then she will listen Good Luck u need it