My parents have been divorced for ten years and seven years ago my mother remarried. She and my stepdad are sometimes verbally and physically abusive of me and my brother (who has mild autism and doesn't understand what they're doing is wrong).
On the last day of school, I wrote a story about a girl who was mistreated by her mother which was kind of autobiographical and I gave it to a teacher and I hoped the teacher or the principal would ask me if something was wrong. I felt guilty, I guess, and I didn't want to just tell, because it was hard for me, and I know it's stupid, but I wanted someone to ask. So on the last day of school, the principal asked, but my stepdad was in the office and I got scared and said nothing was wrong. I know that no one can help me if I didn't tell them I needed it, but I WAS SCARED. Later, I wrote the principal a letter so she would understand the situation, but I know I should have told when I had the chance.
When I got home to my mom's house, she freaked out about the story, because apparently the principal (whom I'd actually trusted) had told my mom about it despite me telling her specifically not to do so, and my mom told me to get out and go stay with my dad and never come back and I said I would and I did.
My dad said I could stay with him as long as I needed to, and even though she's trying to fight it, that's what I'm doing. But last night my theatre group put on a play and she wasn't there and neither was my brother or my stepdad and it just felt so incomplete. I was both relieved, because I didn't WANT her to show up anyways, and sad, because a small part of me was hoping against hope that she'd be there. This really seals the deal, that she won't be there to celebrate my successes, and they are no longer important to me. I feel so incomplete and depressed, when I really shouldn't feel this way. I should feel excited about the play! Is it normal to feel this way? What can I do about it?
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