My mom and boyfriend don't get along?

Question

what should i do? my mom is always saying to me how she doesn't like stuff he does, but then just the other day, she said she loves him like a son. like before we got together, he's been like a child to her sorta. it's complicated. just all my friends and my sister's friends call her Mother Dear. and he had a bunch of sh*t with his mom so my mom helped him a lot. now his mom has straightened out and he's been seeing her again. and we've been together for almost 11 months, so he's very important to me. i want them (my mom and him) to talk and work things out, but neither seem open to it. he doesn't like my big sister (she's 17 and they were really good friends. he's her age) cuz he says she talked crud behind his back. and so i wanted to invite my sister to go to the movies with us cuz

1. his car isn't working and

2. she's going to college and this weekend she's leaving and i wanna spend time with her

and so he didn't want her to come so i ended up crying cuz he wouldn't do this one thing for me. he didn't want to go if she was going. and so i ended up telling my sister he doesn't like her so she asked why and i said cuz he says she talks sh*t. and she was like no i dont. so now my mom is pissed at him for that and so is my sister and i don't know what to do. i feel so depressed right now. what should i do?

Answer 1

Wow that'ss funny i went through the same thing at ur age. Basically your going to have to have him around, so your mom and sis can be around him more, so they will see that heisn'tt the *** hole that they think he is. But he's just kind of stubborn, hedoesn'tt wanna go to the movies with u and ur sister. Dating is about compromise, so you need to talk to him about that. Tell him how important it is to you. One of these days he's going to need you to do something for him. So just let him know that. But your sister is still def. important, and you still need to go to the movies with her to spend time with her before she leaves. If hedoesn'tt want to go, then you can find another time to go with him. But your sister comes first.Don'tt be depressed,he'lls just a little young so he doesn't fully understand compromise yet.