My mom and brother always get me mad and i dont know what to do about it

Question

like today my mom gave me a list of the things she wanted me to buy but she told me to pay with my own money wich is for school stuff and my older brother who is 19 and dosent even have a real job or go to school is just encouraging my mom to do it and i get mad and scream at them and run out of the house cause they dont understand me my mom wants me to be sord of the pearson who pays the bills and buys the food scence i dont have a dad and she dosent work am i just a brat or what?

Answer 1

your mum has payed for you since the day you were born so yes you are been a brat you should be helping your mum and contributing not screaming at her so grow up and live in the real world where you have to do and pay for things

Answer 2

no, you are not a brat, i do understand you. In your place, i would the same, it is not fair for your mom to do that to you, though i would have talked to her first before screaming

Answer 3

ok i know how you feel my moms the same way and you think its not right that you pay for your stuff unless you get an allowance. if not then theres a problem you shouldnt pay for your stuff but another thing you shouldnt scream and whine like a little baby cause that makes you sound bratty but i figured out the best thing to do is just go with what she says and when your alone with her try nicely talking to her about wht you think is fair without whining or complaining---hope it works!

---Sabriina ^_^

Answer 4

Where are you getting your money?

If you have a job, then move in with an aunt or uncle.

Tell your older brother to get off his lazy butt and get a job,tell your mom he should be out and on his own,that you are NOT supporting him and it is her job to support YOU until you are 18.

Now if the money you get is from the state,that money SHOULD be going to your mother to make sure you have a roof over your head, food in your belly,clothes on your back and medical care when you need it.

Answer 5

just tell  them

Answer 6

ehh thats not right tell them to buy it themselves

Answer 7

the same here it gets different only in the problem but my mom and brother always get me mad too!

Answer 8

I wouldn't call you a brat, but your certainly getting mad over nothing.  Why shouldn't you buy your own school supplies.  Your obviously getting money from someplace (a job, social security?).  What does screaming and running out of the house do to help them understand you?  Don't pay the bills, if you choose not to.  Buy food you want to eat.  Put your money in  the bank and tell them you have no money.  If you somehow feel obligated to feed them, shop wisely.  Nutritious food is not expensive, if they don't want to eat it, they can starve, and you don't have to feel responsible.  Rice, beans, oats, pasta, sauce, peanut butter, and bread are enough variety.  If you have a Dollar store, shop there.  If they don't like what you buy, their gonna have to get their own food somehow.  Buy food for yourself but keep it in your room (don't let the see the empty packages, which will create another confrontation).  Bottom line it's your money, don't let anyone tell you what to do with it.  But, buying school supplies are for you.

Answer 9

Well, you don't tell the whole story, like why your brother still lives there or why your mom isn't working right now, or even why it is that you have money when they don't. So I don't know if they are being unreasonable, or if circumstances are such right now that they have to use your money to afford to have the basics to survive. What I do know is that I had to work from the time I was 7 years old and my mom took most of my money and spent it. Sometimes it was for things we needed but mostly it was for herself. So even when it was for what we needed it still made me angry that the money I earned was just taken from me without any say on my part, because it was mine and I was lead to believe at times that I'd be able to use it for other things.

So no, you aren't a brat for feeling that you shouldn't have to be the one to be the adult when there are adults about, nor are you a brat for feeling gypped out of being able to spend your money how you were told you'd be able to spend it. Feeling that way is normal under the circumstances.

Answer 10

money is very tight right now girl, don't complain mom has been supporting you for a long time changed your diapers made you bottles and spend up many nights worrying about the bills.Its OK to do your little share now Don't complain be part of a happy family tell brother to do the same. Things will get better then.