My mom and dad is being way unfair..............?

Question

ok i was at school on a normal day and you could say that i get in trouble most of the time and some kid got mad at me and he pushed me so i punched him and.... well..... he ended up with a bloody nose and i got suspended for 1 day and mom and dad grounded me for 2 weeks with like nothing i cant do anything except go to school come home eat take a shower then go to bed (this happened about 2-1/2 weeks ago since i couldnt get on comp to tell this so im doing it now) and i think its unfair i get punished when he started the fight. dont you think they were unfair?

Answer 1

sorry........but know, if a person starts with violence, you don't continue.If I were suspended my parents would do the same.

Answer 2

haha sorry kid but you think thats unfair?!?! i'd be grounded for like 3months. i personally think that your story isnt fair at all,but i have to deal with extremly strict parents. yours isnt that bad.

Answer 3

Well I'd get pissed off too but you obviously didn't gain your parents' trust.. I mean.. I'm a kid too but you have to earn peoples trust to make them believe you. Don't you think if you didn't get in trouble alot, they would actually believe you and not ground you? Well yeah.. I'm sorry about what happened though.

Answer 4

yes that is true but why did you hit him you know you could have walked away and not done nothing and you would not have this problem and so therefore you need to sstop fighting

Answer 5

Honestly, if you get in trouble all of the time anyway, then you DESERVE the punishment. Any child who stays in trouble deserves punishment. Why are you always in trouble as you said in your first line. So what that this time someone else started it. If you were a great child, then I could let you go and give you a softer punishment, but it sounds like that YOU need a firm hand.

Really, if you are getting into trouble everyday then I am deeply worried about you. You are headed for a bad end or jail. This is just being honest. People who act out and can't fit into society usually have no place but on the edge of society and if you are a black or a minority, then you will probably be in jail because that's the place they put those who constantly act out. One day, you WILL hurt someone and one day it will NOT be enough to say I'm sorry. One day it will NOT be enough to say "it was him".

Here's something for you to learn now, while you are learn: IF you want to stop getting into trouble - then change the following:

a) change your attitude

b) stop talking back so much (which I'm sure you do)

c) study harder and focus on school more; you probably are NOT a straight A or B student because if you were you wouldn't have a chance to stay in trouble

d) change the friends you hang around in school; they are also probably trouble-makers like you.

I believe parents today are too soft, which is why we have a generation of children that are out of control. You got 2 weeks, when you probably needed about 2 months to maybe shake you at your core. You are still doing bad things because you haven't had that LIFE CHANGING punishment. You need to be shaken to your soul where you know that your MOm isn't playing. If I were your Mom, I'd give you another chance and tell you that 2008 is a new school year coming and that IF you start off the year with foolishness that you can KISS every afternoon of 2008 goodbye! You would only use the computer for homework and you would be cleaning the entire house every weekend!

YOu are probably a nice kid but you are not thinking clearly and maybe a strong, long punishment will help you to get on the right track and find your priorities.

Let me tell you - your Mom is probably SICK AND TIRED of you giving her a headache. No one wants to hear about c**p everyday from their kid. Every parent, even YOU one day, wants to hear a 'good news' report from their child. No one wants to have a bad kid carry their name.So straighten up. Your Mom reacted that way because this is PROBABLY not your first suspension! She's fed up and I don't blame her! If you want to be trusted and treated like a good kid, then act like one. I was a good kid and I had a ton or priveleges. So...straighten up!

Answer 6

u still fought back

Answer 7

I wouldn't answer a question that says, M mom and dad is being way unfair. Grammer correction!

Fine, I'll answer and not be a B***h.

No. And Life is unfair honey. Parents can seem like they're mean, but I don't know. I'm 15 and sometimes I wish my mom was dead. So, who knows. Just deal with the punishment.

Answer 8

look at your first sentence "I get in trouble most of the time"....

Life isn't fair - the faster you learn this the better.......I doubt you will gain much support here and even if you did it won't change your parents mind.

Stay out of trouble!!

Also...looks like you are on the computer so life can't be that "unfair" now can it???

Answer 9

if someone pushes you... You're just supposed to walk away.

or you can punch the guy for only pushing you.. give him a bloody nose and get susspended for a day and get grounded for 2 weeks

I'd say maybe a grounding for a week TOPS only because you fought back. but 2 weeks.. ?????????

Answer 10

i can understand why you are confused. But, you actually did throw the first punch, and if they didnt punish you, it would send you a message that they didnt mind you hitting someone.

Answer 11

they were unfair but you were being stupid alot of people on here say you shouldnt have punched him but i would lay him out next time wait untill after school and follow him like a block from school and beat his @ss i got suspended for three days for slamming a kids head into a locker when he punched me twice first after that i never fought at school again so be smart next time

Answer 12

I think its fair because you still fought back