My mom and exboyfriend

Question

okay my mom and ex have always been close we were together for 2 years and he practically lived with us, she would give him money and pay for everything

we recently broke up and it got really bad

he would call me a c u n t and s l u t and just horrible names, he treated me like garbage and i would come home crying like everyday

well we stopped talking all together and my mom one night when she was drunk blurted out that she sent my ex a bunch of money for his grad gift???

after he called me all these names and did horrible things to me

it hurt me so bad

i dont know what to doooo

Answer 1

please don't be offended but i'm kinda wondering, why would your mom give your ex money? what did he do to her to make her give money to someone she's not related to?

if you were my daughter, i'd give that money to you instead of him. at least you're my daughter and the reason for accumulating money is to spend it for yourself or for your kids, right?

Answer 2

She still likes him. :] It's hard on her to just let him go.  

Answer 3

yes

Answer 4

there is a problem, nothing you can do about it,but your mom surely has a big problem, by the way does your mom know how he treated you?

Answer 5

there is definitely something strange going on here.

take care and avoid this guy.  tell your mother how you feel about this and make sure she knows how your feelings are hurt.

good luck!!!!