My mom and her brother wont talk to each other

Question

my mom and my uncle got in a fight 4 months ago and they havent talk since i really miss hanging out with my cousin and calling them cause we were really close so now they cant talk to me because of a stupid fight and they are going to miss my birthday party which is gonna be awesome what should i do

Answer 1

Regardless of whether your mom and uncle had a fight they shouldnt be punishing you kids for this.  You need to sit mom down and explain that while her business is her business you dont want that coming into your life.  You love you cousins and want them at the party!  amybe uncle could drop them off and then mom take them home afterwards.  Time to have a grown up convo with mom.

Answer 2

tell ur mom and uncle that u and ur cousins have nothing to do with there fight!!!

i think u should call u uncle and cousins, this isn't ur fight, and there still family. and slowly slowly they'll wake up and not keep u guys apart.

thats ridiculous. some 1 has to big the big person in all this,  if they dont want to talk its fine , but they shouldn't keep u from seeing ur family.

thats not cool!!!

good luck  

Answer 3

Tell your mother as and adult she should see it is not your fight with them it is hers and that putting you kids in the middle is child like.  

Answer 4

Sadly there is not much you can do about the situation at your age.  We can always change ourselves but we cannot change another person.  When I was younger I had to cross over to the other side of the street,  when my mother saw her sister approaching.  This went on for nearly 5 years.  We never saw our cousins all that time and never knew what the reason for the split was until many years later.    You could approach your Mum and and say that you want your cousin to attend your birthday party, but don't count on it.  If she does say no, let it go, otherwise you will find that your party is not a happy one because you are upset,  

Answer 5

Wow. I can see both sides of this.

I don't speak to my sister because she is a user, a liar and a sociopath and it was not good for me or my kids to be around her.

We all really miss my nieces and nephews, I wish things were different and I worry about the kids (a couple are exhibiting some of her traits courtesy of watching her). I keep tabs on them through my parents who, although they are sick of her c**p, don't want to cut ties with her.

I don't keep  my kids from contacting hers though. You are right, it isn't the kid's fight. Ask your mom if she would mind if you visited with your cousins at a grandparents house or at the movies or something.

Answer 6

talk to your mom and ask her if she can appologize to your uncle. ask her if she can call him or if she cant get ahold of him ask her to pay him  avisist. After all she is an adalt. She needs to handle this in a adltly manner.

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Answer 7

tell your mom and uncle that you and your cousins are not mad at each other and see no reason for you kids to be involved in their fight

Answer 8

tell your mom that you would really like your cousins to come to your birthday party then call your cousins/uncle on your own and tell them you'd really like them to come to your birthday party.  Tell your uncle AND your mom that you are sorry that they are fighting but it's not fair to punish the kids because they can't get along.

understand--this is assuming your mom and uncle are rational and sane people.  If they are not then you risk being punished for being this bold.  Also if you don't know what they are fighting about (and it is none of your business unless not knowing is dangerous to you) then they may actually have a good reason for the kids not being in contact.

be bold but tread carefully.

Good Luck.

Answer 9

Always keep your family close no matter what, your mother and your uncle are being childish and you have to show them that what they are doing is wrong. So call your cousin and get together and forget your mom and your uncle. Just remember to tell you mom it is stupid to hold on to the past and get over it. Need more advice you can email me at [e-mail] good luck!