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My mom and her marriage...?

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So my mom divorced my dad because he was an alcoholic basically and she didnt want my brother or i raised in that environment. she's on her second marriage now im pretty sure for financial stability. i know, gold digger, ha, but please the situation isn't funny.

i don't really like my stepdad, mostly because i dont think he's right for my mom. he's never hit her tho i know he looks at p**n and it bothers her. he also treats her like a woman, expecting her to make dinner clean and have a job. he is also overweight however my mom is very fit. she says their s*x life sucks. they fight regularly but i am assured things are well between them... altho i am not really assured.

tonight i found her smoking... i know its a stress reliever but that's weird. she has been increasingly drinking but not to a drunk drunk state.

im not sure what to do. is this normal or should i be as worried as i am?

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  1. Yes you should be worried.  Ask her if she needs help.  Go to some counseling sessions with her and get her self-confidence back.  Believe me $$$ will NOT buy happiness I don't care what anyone says - she deserves happiness and if this isn't it (and it's obvious by your comments) she needs to get 'out' and find her OWN financial stability.  Others don't bring happiness, SHE must find her own!!!


  2. Good for you for reaching out to help your mom.

    It doesn't sound like your mom is very happy with her new hubby. Suggest that she talk to someone who will be able to help her deal with these issues.


  3. It sounds like she seeks out the wrong type of men over and over.  Learn from her mistakes.  I doubt she would take any good advice so I am not going to waste my time typing any.  

  4. you should be worried. your mom needs to get you, your brother and herself out of that sit. stepdad reminds me of mine...the s.o.b.

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