My mom and i can't stop fighting EVER and i'm getting really tired of it how do i stop it?

Question

every time i'm doing something my mom tells me to do something else yes u may think that its ur mom so u need to listen, but she dose it all the time i need some time to do things for myself. and everything we fight about is just so stupid. i didnt like saying this but my mom can be an air head allot of the time and she doesn't know that shes making me socially unincapable. i just want to find out how to make her under stand and find a way to stop fighting with her so much or completely.

Answer 1

Sounds like you and your mom may need to talk.  Tell your mom that you'd like to go to lunch and shop like "girls" and that you miss just hanging out with her.  Ask her to please not get mad ahead of time because you need to talk to her.  Tell her you really care about her and you feel like you are always fighting and you need her to understand that you are getting older.  Sounds like your mom could be overprotective and that's not your fault but I don't want to say it's hers either.  I don't know for sure.  I'm a mom so, if my daughter (we don't fight) were to ask me this, I'd go!  I'm sure things will work out; she doesn't sound like a bad mom, you two just need to understand and love each other and forgive.  You and she both are very blessed to have each other as some people don't have mothers at all!  Try calmly to talk to her, you never know what might happen.  Tell her in a very nice respectful way that you need some space, just little.  Sometimes us moms just don't want our little girls to grow up!  :)  Take care and I'm sure things will work out.  Sounds like you've got  a good mom.  My daughter used to think I was spacey too!  I'm just goofy and still a big kid but I don't want my 14 yr old to get older.  But she has to.  So, I understand her, like she understands me.  We're bf's!

Answer 2

ME AND MY MAMA WAS HAVING THAT PROBLEM ... WHAT I DID WAS STAY IN MY ROOM... OR STAYED AWAY FROM HOME BUT I LEARNED THAT...  THAT DIDN'T HELP THE PROBLEM BECAUSE WE JUST FOUGHT MORE... MOST OF THE NIGHT I PRAY AND ASK THE LORD TO HELP ME THROUGH THIS.... BUT WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO IS JUST SIT DOWN AND  TALK TO HER .... HAVE AND DAY OUT AND TAKE TO HER EAT AND TO THE MALL ... BUT MOST OF ALL  JUST PRAY.... PRAY...PRAY..PRAY..