My mom calls me for every little thing?

Question

ok so my mom had to get a job because she got a bunch of credit cards that she ran up because she wanted some stuff that she didn't have the money for.Well in doing that she had to get a job to pay it all off well she she said the days that she had off was my days off which is only once a week so today and last week she had a day off and since she has started getting days off i work more than i do when she is working every lil sec she wants to call me for every lil thing while she sits on her butt i have a lil sister and lil brother that i babysit so she doesn't have childcare bills also but its really makin me mad that she refuses to do anything for them and have me sit in there and watch them and babysit them while she sits on her butt and watches tv all day it makes me so mad. Since all of this has happened i made it aware to her that i will be moving out on my 18th brithday which is on sep 9th. It feels like a million years from now my question is what can i do to not make me wanna go off on her and tell her how lazy she is i tried talking to her ya that didn't help and her baby daddy works also but when he is off he watches them and doesnt call me for one thing

Answer 1

I think that you should tell her in a "NICE" way that those are her kids and she needs to take care of them when she is at home. Yeah they are your siblings and you should help out if needed, but not raise the kids, because if you had any you would be watching yours and hers also.