My mom constantly underdmines me with my 7 year old daughter. What do I do?

Question

My mom constantly underdmines me with my 7 year old daughter. What do I do?

Answer 1

We went through the same thing what helped us was staying consistent no matter what they did or  thought (my in laws ) we stuck to what we were doing as parents another thing let them have her for the weekend and they'll see why you do the things you do as a parent.

Answer 2

Tell her away from your daughter to stop.  If she tries to do it still, make sure you don't give in to whatever your mom says and follow through with what you were doing.

Answer 3

in the nicest way possible tell your mom that she has to respect u as a parent and trust that she has raised u properly and that u will do the same, if this does not work then u will be forced to limit her time around your child, u also have to instill in your child that what u say goes, and thats the bottom line.

good luck!

Answer 4

tell her to butt out. And if she can't then limit your time around her

Answer 5

Tell your mom she raised you right and you know what to do. Don't Say it in a mean way say it nicely that way your mother still says a loving Grandma of your daughter and helps you out when you need it.. Tell her Thanks for tying to help you but she is your child.. NOT HER's...... {{{Hope This Helps}}}..!!!!

Answer 6

Tell her she is making it very hard on you as a parent when it comes to disciplining your child. Tell her that it has to stop because this your child not hers

Answer 7

Explain to your mom that you apprecaite that she cares about you and her grandaugther, but if she keeps undermining you and wont follow the rules you have then she cant be allowed to see her grandaugther. Because she's just going to confuse you daughter when it comes to rules and whatever else she's doing. So just ask for some respect as a parent.

Answer 8

dont forget not to put your daughter in the middle. thats the worst thing you could do. also, dont go telling your mom to stop. like thats really going to work! thats your weakness, find hers and use it. maybe thats the only way to make it stop.