My mom died when i was really little. all of my dads girlfriends r idiots!!?

Question

when me and my twin bro were 3, my mom died. my dad just starting dating lats year. all of his girlfriends r soo stupid and they hate us! me and my bro have managed 2 get rid of all of them.

except for now

my dad starting dating this girl, and he semms 2 really like her

we've tried 2 get rid of her bu she wont go

and, we dont wantt 2 tell my dad because he seems really happy. and we havent seen him loo thus happy since mom died.

wat should i do?

Answer 1

tell me about it.

ever since my parents divorced my moms remarried 3 times. yeah -_-

you probably just dont like her cause you feel like shes trying to replace your real mom, which obviously can never happen.

unless shes really rude to you or stuff like that, dont tell your dad.

i know its hard but your just gonna have to deal with it. give her a chance - she might be cool.

:D

Answer 2

If you love your dad, you will make an effort to adjust to his girlfriend.  I suspect you do not like any of his girlfriends only because they are not your mom.  Your dad has every right to find someone who is right for him and you kids also.  When your dad's girlfriend makes an effort to be nice and kind to you, you and your brother should reciprocate..  She deserves to be treated the way she treats you.  You would not want your dad to go through life without someone special in his life would you?  It will not be easy but your dad will be proud of you for doing that.

Answer 3

your efforts to get rid of his girl friends are only going to get you offside with both your dad and his girlfriends, and now you have found one that is not so easy to get out of his life and if she stays then she can make your life's h**l until you are able to get outta their at lest.

you say that they hate you and your brothers was she doing anything before you and your brothers started to work on her (getting ride of her that is)? if she was then you should have said that then to your dad, now she has reason to not like you and your brothers and you have less credibility with your dad if you try and get it to hem and he asks her so you have made a very bad bed for yourselves to lye in.

Talk to your dad let him know everything even the bad things that you have been up to everything that is the only way to get somewhere with this i would think

but if it is just that the girls are idiots really what is it to you? I mean you are still a kid/teen what ever you have a life out side the home too and so your not going to be spending as much time with her as he is and if it is what he wont's then why not just be happy for him that he has someone?

also what if he was to get someone that was really bad and was abusive to you and your brothers that is what i would start to really try and get ride of them and let your dad know then but as it is being stupid and heatingyou is the worst that you get then your not so badly off hay

Good luck with it  

Answer 4

if she is also an idiot i cant blame u for wanting to get rid of her... i mean... whod want a ditzy stepmom who doesnt like u guys. u might want to tell ur dad tht she doesnt like u guys... and if theyre all idiots they probably only want money and s*x so u guys did a good job of protecting ur dad. but if hes truly happy then u need to give her a chance... after all dads have NEEDS too...

Answer 5

well if he really likes her and she really likes him then I think you should just let it go. if it gets worse try talking to you dad about it

Answer 6

wow.

that girl was llike no help at all.

i think that if yur dad is happy. leave it alone. but if she's rude to you and you really really dont like her then just tell yur dad