My mom doesn't care about me anymore?

Question

1-day AGO!!! i am literally like crying right now! She is really pissing me off like seriously! she taking my place with MY mother. she has only been here since like last friday! serious she makes me so mad she changed my room moved my clothes over and hung her stuff up she is going to college here! i am wondering why she doesn't go to the dorm! like seriously as i write her and my mom are sitting on the couch eating pop corn and i am up stairs crying on yahoo answers. We where all watching a show together and i just got up and left and no one said anything not even good night or bye? should i tell my mom i want my cousin out!? like her whole family is moving out here and buying a house!!! i am not excited like they will always be invading my personal space it's going to be so annoying i can already tell my mom will be going over there like every day spending all her money and them etc etc it's so annoying i not a s****. kid but these people are in my personal space it's so annoying i seriously want her out she is so f*ck*ng annoying i am not even kidding i hate how she always starts random conversations with my mom when i am talking too her.! Her and my mom are talking about going to the library tommorrow and it is really pissing me off like i just want alone time like seriously! what should i do, should i tell my mom i want her out?? i love my family but is there a such thing as being too god d**n close like get out of my life!!!!!

TODAY: OMG!! MY MOM JUST HELPED MORE FAMILY I HAVE NEVER SEEN IN MY LIFE!! AND OF A SUDDEN THIER IMPORTANT TO HER! THE LADY AND HER TWO DAUGHTERS MOVED HERE!! AND I WANT THEM TO GO BACK WHERE THEY CAME FROM MY MOM IS BUYING THEM SHOES AND SHIZNIT! IT'S NOT COOL I CALLED HER 5 TIMES AND SHE HAS RESPONDED. SHE ALWAYS DOES THIS TOO ME I HATE IT SO MUCH I FEEL NEGLECTED ! WHEN THEY CAME OVER ALL THEY DID WAS TALK TO MY OTHER COUSIN WHO LIVES IN MY HOUSE! I HAVE NOTHING TOO SAY TOO THEM!!! THEN MY MOM ASK ME WHY AM I SO UP TIGHT DO YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT LATER AND I SAID YES AND SHE HASN'T EVEN ATTEMPTED TOO TALK TO ME I SERIOUSLY HATE THIS c**p SO MUCH!! GOSH THOSE PPL WHO ARE LIVING IN ANOTHER HOUSE THAT BELONGS TO MY PARENTS THEY HAVED MOVED SO MUCH THEY LIVED IN LIKE 5 DIFF PLACES IN THE U.S. AND EVEN LIVED IN AFRICA THE LADY SAYS SHE HAS NO MONEY AND NO PLACE TOO GO!! I HAVE NEVER HEARD OF HER IN MY LIFE. BUT WHEN SHE WAS IN OUR HOUSE SHE WAS ALL AWH MY BABY?? WTF I DON EVEN KNOW YOU AND I'VE NEVER SEEN YOU IN MY LIFE!! HER DAUGHTERS DIDN'T SEEM TO WANT TO TALK TO ME AND I FELT THE SAME IN VICE VERSA... DUDE I HAVE NO PERSONAL SPACE ANYMORE I HATE BEING SO CLOSE TO PEOPLE I DON'T EVEN KNOW AND MY MOM IS PROBABLY OVER THERE WITH THEM RIGHT NOW....!! I SERIOUSLY HATE MY LIFE SO MUCH!!

Answer 1

ummm..Im not sure...but honestly..first: calm down.  second:  take a seat..lastly:  its okay.

sometimes my mom gets on my nerves too..but i know she loves me...and im sure ur mom loves u too!  so dont fret!

Answer 2

Maybe you are feeling sad because you are not currently the center of attention.  Try to welcome your family.  It is rude not to welcome newcomers to the community.  They may not know anyone else or have friends in the area.  Your mom knows that because she is an adult.  You should try to grow up.  

Answer 3

I only got about 25% of the way through your post but you should be grateful that your Mom is being generous and helpful.  It sounds like your situation is temporary, get over yourself, love everyone in your household no matter what.  When they die you'll regret being so selfish.

Answer 4

maybe if you chill and quit pitching your fit, your mom will listen to you.

Answer 5

You may hate your life but we fail to forget others have it worse, the only advice i can give you is to stop and think about the situation and think is it really worth crying about, heck at least you have a mother and a home, some children have no choice than to drink camel p**s for lack of water, enjoy what you have and not what is a privilege

Answer 6

Honey just because you haven't hear of these people it doesn't mean that you mom doesn't know them, family is family and if they need help then she's doing the right thing.  I think you're a bit jealous of your cousin which is normal and it's ok.  I'm sure your mom loves you and cares about you the most.  At night go to her room and ask if you can talk to her.  Get in bed with her or make hot chocolate or what ever and talk, communication is the key.  You go show her that you are mature.  

Answer 7

They're your family and whether you like it or not your mom is doing the right thing.  I don't think that your cousin should have made you move all your stuff around, but did you say something to her to let her know how you feel about it at the time?  Try to keep an open mind and know that the situation will not last forever and try to make the best of it.  

You sound like any other teenager, just a little jealous that someone came in to your home an made you feel under appreciated, which is perfectly normal.  It's not the first time that has happened.  Try not to focus on the negative, instead look at this as an opportunity to get to know your relatives.    

    



  

Answer 8

hey calm down... your mom is just being genorous you're right if anything happened like that to me. i'd be also freaking out like h**l. But this is your problem right now so lets talk about you. yahoo msgner me supershine153 tell me what happened i promise i'll help as much as possible i swear im not a stalker im a girl. a teenager. Trust me. I want to talk with you my cousin had this problem once. i think i could help!

Answer 9

Do I detect a little jealousy here?   If these people have no money and no where to go, don't you feel even a little bit sorry for them?  Your mom does thank goodness and it's sweet of her to take them to buy shoes and shizni (I don't know what shizni is) but if they needed it, it was nice of your mother to get it.

You are exaggerating when you say your mother doesn't care for you any more.  These people just moved her and need some extra attention right now that is all.  You didn't loose your mother over these people she just want to help them.

You need to grow up and think about some one besides yourself and you will be much happier.

It is making your mother happy to do something for others so please don't spoil it for her.  It makes most of us happy when we can help some one that is in need of material things and also needs encouragement.

Blessings

Answer 10

wow i am sorry. i would just pull her into a room by herself and talk to her hard core. i dont think she has a clue that you are so upset. i am so sorry! :(

Answer 11

ok look calm down this is what you should do you should ask sweetly to sleep over their house and do all this horrible stuff and say they did it =D

Answer 12

ok.........................................