My mom got super drunk and....?

Question

Well, my mom has had some serious problems. ANd she as always depressed. So, one day while she went out with her friends and was feeling really bad...she mixed her medicine with a martini and got like crazy drunk like cant even walk-throwing up everywhere-passion out,drunk. SO me, my 17 year old brother ( who just got back from a date) and my dad were in the living room watching THe Office,laughing hysetrical. Then, the lady from Canyons ( the bar) call my dad and says," Yeah,um. Your wife passed out on our Entrance,so...." but My moms friend Deseri Picked her up and drove her home. So, when deseri drove up....my dad and max went out to ther car and tried carrying my mom into the house. THey carried her into the house and gave her a bucket. I was upstairs on the computer laughing b/c this so wasn't like my mom. She was super religious, and super good girl. She was mumbling random krap then she screams at the top of her lungs," MY DAD MADE ME SUCK HIS DICKK!" I blinked once and burst into tears. The tears where you don't know how it happened but you just can't stop. I couldnt get up. My dad started yelling at her and my brother came and picked me up and carried me into my room and locked the door. He read to me some of my books and told me," When ppl r drunk the ywill just mix up words." i acted like i belived him, but i already knew the truth. My brother and my dad had to carry her up the stairs so my brother made me read really loud so I wouldn't hear her. But, i did...a nd i started crying more. I remember them dragging her by my room into her room. And, you know how u say u hate ur parents...but u really dont. I really hated her. I absolutely hated her. And every time i look into her eyes i remember that horrible eyes. and that was like 3 years ago when i was 9! I have like no idea how to make that horrible feeling of sadness go away when my i look in my moms eyes. PLEASE help me!

Answer 1

your brother is right about people mixing around words and doing crazy stuff when they're brain is affected.

actually, my mom got in a motorcycle wreck and had to be life flighted to the head trauma center. she was so confused and and not even herself, she ripped out her cathider! (spelling).

but yeah, try to forgive your mom. i'm sure it wasn't her intention to act like that.

Answer 2

Talk about your mothers drinking incident. You and her. It's the only logical way to get over with it. For the good. She seems to be an intelligent caring mother. I hate to see this relationship ruined over her drinking incident. You got to have some balls tho.

Answer 3

Your mom got drunk and after many years finally disclosed to the people she loves, that she was sexually abused by her father. the pain

your mother feels is horrible. When a person is abused as a child by

someone who is supposed to protect her, it screws up their whole life

and the way they raise their own children. Depression is a serious

problem as a result of abuse. Think about the way your mom looked that night That was a sad sad time for her. When you reject your mom

you are doing exactly what she feared all her life. Try to understand

her, she could use your love and support.

Answer 4

Your poor mother she must have been really stressed out to want to drink so much.

Answer 5

I know exactly how you feel. My mother is a depressed recovering alcoholic. I've been dealing with her drinking since I was about 14 (19 now). Almost all the things you described I went through too. It's normal to say that you hate her when you really don't. You hate how they are when they're in that state. You hate what they did. You hate that they made that horrible decision. The only thing to help is time. Has she done this repeatedly? Do you still talk to her and see her? Maybe try and talk to her about it. Or even talk to your father and/ or brother. Let your emotions out, how it made you feel that night, and how you feel now. Things will be okay.