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My mom has polycystic ovarian syndrome :'( ??????

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All my life i've been wondering why i was an only child and all that stuff. Then a few years back i was told my mom has polycystic ovarian syndrome and i didn't really put 2 and 2 together. She's a little heavy and has extra hairs on her face she plucks. She also has bad nerves-somthing that runs in the family...

OK so my moms doctor a really bad one (she didnt know at the time) said that it was impossible to get pregnant. So she had me and yeah. But my parents didn't try at all to have me in the first 2 years. Then she got a new doctor and she told her it was possible.

So they had s*x 1 a week for a year then i raced over to meet the egg and was the fastest spermy in 1 year. (lol can't think of any other ways to put that) But my parents waited a long time to have me. At least 5 years and now they aren't old but they are both 50 and 51 now.

Could you please tell me a few things about this condition??

And i was wondering once i turned 18 could i sue the doctor (in canada) or a lawsuit? I'm really ticked off and i wanna kill that doctor >.> My parents say they don't think if they had a baby that it would come out right? Could they?

It just makes me kinda sad. It SUCKS being an only child :'( plus they wont let me get a doggy >:(

Btw im 14

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  1. i know you feel i am an only child two my parents are 54 and 52 my mom had me when she was 40.i am 12 now but about the suing thing you can but you probably won't win. the doctor said the same exact thing to my mom because she was to old but she had me any ways  


  2. You cant sue any doctors because somethings wrong with your mom they diagnosed her its like me when i was 7 i got diagnosed with cancer (im way past that and im totally better considering im 13) but just because they diagnosed me i cant sue them... for what telling me whats wrong with me?

    Im an only child as well..yeah it sucks but your gonna have to deal with it ever think your mom dosent want to have another kid? if she does then its her deicison to try but its gonna be okay being an only child isnt so bad i think i respect my parents more like this not that i wouldnt respect them otherwise but they deserve every minute of my time if its only me :)


  3. Your mother's condition means she needs to be monitored by a doctor who specializes in female reproductive health.  She needs to make sure the cysts are mapped and watched for any abnormal growth beyond them just being there.  It also meant that having a child was difficult.  That is not the doctor's fault and there is no reason to sue.

    Since your parents are 50 and 51, I doubt that they want more children now.  They probably just feel so lucky that you were the fastest swimmer and got here! (I thought that was so cute!) To have more children now wouldn't be fair to the child or them.  They would be 64 and 65 by the time your sibling was 14 and you would be 28.  Not much company for you either!

    Do you have cousins you can be close to?  Best friends?  My son is an only child due to my own health problems.  He and I have talked about it a lot and he has said that he never minded not having siblings.  I worried that he would be lonesome, like you are, but he has always made lots of friends.  Poor lad had scads of very girly cousins, so that wasn't much help to him.

    A dog would be nice, huh?  Can you be a bit more pursuasive without being annoying?   Try discussing the reasons your parents object to a dog calmly and rationally.  Make sure you would be willing to be very responsible for the animal.  The novelty can wear off pretty quickly being responsible for the care and feeding of a dog; especially when it rains, weather is cold, and better things to do come along. Your parents know that and may be worried that they will end up caring for the dog.

    You can bring that up and present them a challenge to monitor how ready you are for the task.  Tell them to watch how well you are doing your chores and keeping up with your studies without being asked.   You are doing that right?  If not, start and talk to them again in a few months noting the change.  You may be able to get that dog afterall.

    Soon you'll be all grown up and able to have as many children as you and your spouse agree on and can afford.  Till then try to be a great best friend to someone.

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