My mom hates my man,4 a mistake he made!?

Question

my man got drunk and broke out my moms car windows after me and hhim fought and sheburnt him with a cig.now she dosent want us 2 be together but hes very sorry and some1 has 2 pay 4 the windows,my mom blames me and tells me to choose the family or him.i dont know wat to do i love him but us not being together is making him accuse me and my moms stressing me so bad!

Answer 1

your mom has every right to not like him or to ever like him.  you are her daughter and what she sees right now is a relationship headed for doom.  What if he got drunk and hit you?  Maybe your mom is concerned about other things he may do when he gets drunk or angry.  A mother's love goes way beyond any love that ever exists.  To me its sounds like your young yet, this wont be the only relationship in your life.  Your family is forever.  However in your defense I think the worst thing for a parent to do is to make you decide between your family and the man you are with.  If you were my daughter I would tell you, if at this time this guy is who you want to be with, be careful. but also he is not allowed to come anywhere near the house or this family.  Your man made a big mistake, no matter how sorry he is, it wont change a thing, and if he truely loves you, he wouldnt put so much pressure on you when it comes to your family.