My mom hit me, and I don't know what to do!

Question

Ok so i have got into some law trouble, but its my first time and I payed off all my fines, I have lied to my mom sometimes normally she catches me on them I always try to make it up and say im sorry but she says I need to change, normally I do well but I slip up here and their. This week i was banned of everything for a mouth and I got into a argument about this and I told her to go away and she hit me 4 times on the head and once in the face, my head hurts badly, she has hit me 4-5 times before I even got into law trouble. I am 14, she just said shes leaveing for good and drove off. I don't know what to do!

Answer 1

Interesting...just 3 months ago you asked a question and in it you stated that you were 16.  How odd that now, 3 months later you are "14".

Now you say your mom hit you, then left and you dont know what to

do?

Here are two suggestions:

Private your q/a so the nice people on here can't track all your "stories" and expose you.

OR

Print out all your q/a and take them to a good mental health professional, they will tell you "what to do".

Answer 2

omg,, about the hitting-you-thingy, i think no mom has the right to hit her kids no matter what they do or the trouble they get themselves in,,

but now, she drove off and you're saying "for good!" i think you should call her and talk to her,, you should tell her she was wrong from the first place for hiting you, and she shouldn't have thought that hitting you would change you,,

and i think she'll come back, don't worry,, she's your mom after all..

telling her "sorry" will also help, and try to change

Answer 3

Call a close family member or a close friend and see what they can do.

Answer 4

Are you serious? Get your butt into shape, that's your mother for god sake! Have you even thought for one minute how she might be feeling about this situation, moms feel so hurt when they feel like they have raised a "disrespectful" kid suck it up, call your mom and apologize ..

Answer 5

Your mother is fed up with your c**p! The only thing you can do is apologize to her and beg her to forgive you. She loves you and can't stand to see you in trouble. She hit you to get your d**n attention! Stop arguing with her and do as you are told to. You are only 14, you are not an adult. Quit whining about being hit. Take some Tylenol and go to bed.

Answer 6

Stop being a little crybaby.

Parents need to be able to discipline their kids. Because without disciplining, kids will grow up from being snot nosed little craps to being snot nosed tool. Societies morons.

Just toughen up. Or stop messing up. Stay out of trouble, and help your mom out more around the house. Stop being a brat.

Answer 7

wow

call 911

wow

Answer 8

Straighten your act up and hope she comes back with an understanding attitude.  The next time you got into trouble with the law I would tell you to get yourself out of it.  If she hit you then GOOD FOR HER!!!

Answer 9

Sounds like your mom has taken alot from you and it is time you change.  She probably drove off to cool off.  You need to stop lieing about things.  It only makes things worse.  I am not taking your moms side but when I was young and people my age we got whipping so hard it let brusies with a belt and we didnt do whatever it was we did wrong anymore.  At 14 it is a bad time for kids.  They do tend to get into more trouble but with the law, hey they terrible.  If you want to stay out of juvenile and jail you need to straighten up.  Dont call the law or a teacher just wait.  Your mom will be back.  If for some odd reason she dont show up call a family member and be HONEST and tell them what happened.  The law makes family matters worse.  And a teacher is just going to call the law.  So keep it in the family.  

Answer 10

tell some one. dont listen to xireake.  

Answer 11

You need to tell someone. Tell a teacher call the police. tell a family friend for tell family!!!

Answer 12

She seems to be fed up with your c**p!

Your 14, which means she is leagally responsible for everything you do. And she probably didnt raise you to get into trouble.

Stop whining. She hit you in the face, and it seems to me like you deserved it.

It would be different if you didnt deserve it, but looks to me like you do.

Answer 13

Your not going to like what i say but im going to say it anyway. I have kids that are grown and gone but i can remember their smart mouth on them and when they popped off with something smart they got popped in the mouth. When you go out and break the law that reflects on your parents. You did not mention your dad so im assuming your mom is a single parent and thats a hard thing to do now days. The problem with kids today is some of you hang with the wrong crowd. I dont see anything wrong with an old fashion *** whoopin!!!

Answer 14

Do you have a family member you can call that is close by?  Call them NOW, explain what has happened and ask them to come over.  Your mom noticed she needed a cooling off period.  Yes it is wrong to slap their child this way and legally she could be in trouble. Hun...I have a 22 yr son that has and continues to be in constant legal trouble since the age of 15.  Yes I have been as frustrated mom, not knowing what to do or turn but I have NEVER hit my son.  You need someone to help calm the situation so it does not get any further than it has tonight.  But on the same hand, stop doing all the lieing and other illegal things.  You are setting your self up for some of the agruements.

Answer 15

Get your act together that's what you need to do. You're 14 and already in trouble with the law.. If I was your mom I would have whooped your sorry disobedient behind a long time ago... You're lucky she hasn't sent you to boot camp..

Be happy that she loves you enough to want to knock some sense into you. Don't ruin your life because you're an idiot.

Answer 16

call a close family member so they can take you in  

Answer 17

i think u need to call the police.