My mom is always trying to fight with me?

Question

No matter what i do or say, she yells at me, and yells her opinion at me...

Or if i say something i like, she says that "other people can have opinions too!" when, i didnt even say other wise... what should i do??

oo and i cant escape her, at all.. if i go to my room, she follows me, and if i go outside, she locks the door so i cant get back in, and if i unlock it, she yells at me for "running away and being a chicken and coming home"

help!?

Answer 1

From experience, there's not a lot you can do except try and keep your mouth shut, and move out of home as soon as you can afford it. That's how it was when I was growing up too.

Answer 2

yeah i would definitely talk to another family member about this if i were you. it doesnt sound like your mom's simply mad about something and taking it out on you, cuz then why would she go to such extremes as locking you out/following you everywhere, etc? if she was just taking out anger on you, the most she would probably do is yell, blame you for stuff, etc. you know, simple anger. sorry but it sounds like your mom hates you for some reason (and from your description no obvious reason).

so - talk to another family member/friend, etc. really discuss it in detail, and work out what you should do about this.

here's what you shouldn't do:

1. dont yell back/hit her/lock her out, etc. you should respond to her firmly, though, making her realize how nonsensical she's being, even if she doesnt show that she realizes this after you tell her.

2. dont go straight to the police, unless she's abusing you (this means if she's violently hurting you often, not if she hurts you bad once, etc.)

so, talk to someone about this, and soon.

hope it works out ok.

Answer 3

Maybe something is bothering her and she is taking it out on you? Maybe ask her why she is acting like she is towards you and tell her that it is hurting your feelings or something. Then again she might just go off on you again. Also maybe try taking to another family member and see what they think... if it is a real problem.