My mom is always wondering why i'm always so sad.but i think she knows the answer.?

Question

my mom cheated on my dad so they got a divorce.should i be sad???

Answer 1

Of course but don't beat yourself up for it.  Its not your fault.  Maybe you should talk to your mom.  Getting every sad feeling out of you chest will make you feel better.    

Answer 2

of course ur only human! but you did need to express you feeling to her, so she can know how you feel about the whole situation, and how it not only hurt your father, but you as well

Answer 3

Of course...It's okay to be sad, but don't blame yourself.

Answer 4

Your feelings are your feelings. No one can tell you what you should feel.  Feeling sad over this situation is a very legitimate feeling.  I know I would feel sad.  

The only thing I can tell you is that parents aren't perfect.  Life is hard and sometimes, we make big mistakes.  Unfortunately, the consequences of those mistakes often hurt others, which is what has happened to you.  I'm so sorry about that.  

It's okay to be sad, but don't let it destroy your life.  Use it as an example of what you don't want to do in your own life.  I think it's very easy to dwell on what is wrong with our lives, but try not to do that.  Look at what you have instead of what you don't have.

I wish  you all the best.

Answer 5

Absolutely, but I think you need to express that to her.  She needs to know that her actions not only ruined her marriage, but hurt you in the process.  Afterwards, remember that she is human, and everyone makes mistakes.  If she is sorry, then you need to work on forgiving her, so that your relationship is not ruined.