My mom is showing old agedisease.?

Question

Hi my mom is a heavy heavy smoker and a heavy drinker.my mom drinks the hard liquor like Joaquin's Vodka.My mom has been doing this kind of abuse for 28 yrs. of my life.The vodka and the heavy smoking she dose it's all ready seeping into her pours.My question is I've been pleading and pleading with my moms mental health case manager too talk too the shrink that prescribes all of my moms Mead's.And I constantly feel like i'm being shitted on or flat out ignored of the **** I see my mom of what my mom dose too herself.My mom makes sure every month comes buy that she has enough of her liquor and her Sig's.And she puts food for herself always dead last all the time.every time my mom tells me I don't have any food she expects me too ask my catholic friends too help her out with food.Can anybody that was in my situation can relate too me and give me advice or help of any kind.I feel like I'm her caretaker not her daughter.

Answer 1

If they would help her out, she would never change. She has to hit rock bottom before she'll help herself

Answer 2

You love your mother seek help from the state you live in they will get help for her and for you too.  

Answer 3

take her to a counsellor ,