My mom is to protective!

Question

its getting me mad. i tried talking to her but she always comes up with a stupid reson. i pretend to agree with her. im going in to highschool soon and she ******* freaks out when i want to go in the backyard. jesus she wont let me do ANYTHING!!! all i get to do is stay inside until she wants to take me shopping. ive been offered to walk to a friends house after school, but i have to say no, my "mother dear" wouldnt like it! i hate going shopping with my mom, ide rather go with a group of friends (ivee been ofered) all my friends are out biking with other friends (or alone) they go shopping in the mall and stuff a normal teenage girl would do. i feel like a ******* rat stuck in the house! and being cooped up is making me more angryer angryer every day. my brother and sister were aloud out at my age. my dad is way cooler than my mom. he will let me do stuff. but he has to say no because my mom wouldnt let me!!!!!

Answer 1

im goin tho the same think im 17 and i live with my grandma and granpa b/c my dad died whe i was 13 and my mom has been in some trouble....

i no that you wont to get out and do this and i wont to to but she is just tryin to proctet you this world is crazy i mean forea she just doesnt wont anything to happen to you and wonts you to be safe.. just try and talk to her and see what yall can agree on and mybe she will let you go out with some friends

im a sr this year and my gma dont wont me to do anything but go to sckool and come back home so thats just what i do im goin to be 18 be4 long and then i can do what i wont

i hope i helped

but she is just tryin to keep you safe...

best of luck...

Answer 2

Tell her she's being stupid.

Answer 3

I had the same problem too.

But u see, alot of parents are very protective of their kids.

And i know it must be frustrating, but she just cares.

U need to sit her down and talk to her about this.

I wish u the best of luck.

Answer 4

you growing up...

Answer 5

Try sitting with her (at a good time) and just letting it all out. as hard as it sounds, try to be as calm as u can (without missing a single thing out of ur concerns).

Mothers (in general) have this belief that they know EVERYTHING that's good for us. but that doesn't mean u shouldn't be allowed to grow up & experience the world. Try it. U never know!

Answer 6

You need to get your Dad to send your Mom to a psychiatrist....she's obviously got some type of mental issue going on. What are you going to do when you turn 18? I think its time to stand up for yourself and ignore what your Mom says.  

Answer 7

tell her to get wit the times. u a teenager n she wont let u be one. dats pretty fuked up ur brother n sister had more freedom than u at ur age. talk 2 ur mom n tell her how u feel. talk 2 ur dad bout wat ur mom is doin n tell him to talk to her, maybe thatll help