My mom keeps annoying me!?

Question

Okay, I know I sound like a child right now, but you have no idea how annoyed I am getting. Throughout my life, up until High School, I haven't gone out much, because I went to school with a lot of bad kids, so I would always chill around the house, and my mom would always be like "why don't you go out?" or saying retarded things like, "Why are you afraid of people?". Since High School started, I've been going out a lot more, but if there is ever a day when I stay in, she keeps saying "You don't go out! You haven't been out all summer!", meanwhile I was out like a day and a half ago. I really don't know what to do anymore. I am gonna be a freshman in college in Sept and I have been dealing with this since I was 7. No matter how many days I go out, if I stay in for one day she says like annoying things like that, and I am about to lose it! PLZ help! What do I do??

Answer 1

Just say no, when she says 'Hey, stop smoking that crack'.

Answer 2

make a mark on the calendar each day you go out, so you can later show her them and actually be able to show how often you go out.

That and tell her to quit nagging about it (please) and let you go out when you feel like it.

Keep in mind also that maybe she's got something going on with the mailman and needs her privacy sometimes *wink, wink, nudge, nudge*

Answer 3

tell her what you just wrote, she doesnt understand because she doesnt know, then tell her you would appreciate it if she stop saying that.

Answer 4

you need to enjoy your mother while you can, when she is not here no more. you will reget it..so enjoy her now...

Answer 5

Just explain to her how you feel, ask her to stop making the jokes and such about being "afraid" of people or anything of the sort

Going away to college should help you,since you'll probably be out of the house (unless youre staying at home, obviously)

Appreciate your mom though, they aren't always going to be there to nag at you :)  and it may not seem like it now, but eventually you'll miss it

Answer 6

Explain to her, you do go out, but you can't be out all the time, and your happy with your life, how it is. So she doesn't have to worry about it.